I'm talking about the distinguished male. The one that reminded you of your uncle or grandfather type male. Old and wise. Is this an attraction to females. Also, I notice that young guys are always talking about sex to females. Whereas older guys tend to want to have a good time with females and make them feel like a woman in this regard. Not feel like a woman in how I can do this and that to her. They like sex too, but the main focus is not on getting in between her legs. Plus, I heard the older guys get more sex anyway and that's why they don't focus on the sex aspect of the relationship. Your thoughts on this? Old school guys versus New school guys which one is the right guy for you ladies?
2006-07-28 06:12:23 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yeah, okay, where do I start? Probably not what your looking for, but this is a guys perspective. I notice that there seems to be a lot more young girls prefering relationships with older guys. I'm not talking pedophile young...I'm talking about 20+ girls dating 30+ guys. In general they see us as being what we are...more mature. They're tired of the guys their age acting like 15 year olds, doing stupid things and treating them like they're 'one of the guys'. With us older guys, it's not always about the sex. we sowed those wild oats when we were in our 20's acting like we were 15. We have more respect for the girls, and appreciate them for who they are. Hell, we're in amazement that someone young and beautiful would even give us the time of day. Why would we go and **** it up by acting like some horney school boy? We know how to treat them like the women they are. We have experienced a lot more and learned from our stupid mistakes (most of us that is).
2006-07-28 06:27:50 · answer #1 · answered by paesano2578 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm 36 and in a serious relationship with a man that is 28. Before this relationship, I had only dated older men, so I can tell you what I've experienced on both sides of the fence.
For me, personally, I prefer younger men. They aren't as likely to be threatened by a financially stable woman who doesn't "need" them. It has also been my experience that younger men are looking for an equal in a relationship, while older men I've known were looking for a woman to take care of them, the house, the laundry, the cooking, the children, etc.
I know everyone is different, but this is my experience and my girlfriends all agree - which is why they are all dating younger men as well.
If I were not in a relationship, I would be open to dating an older man, only if I was certain he had the more evolved views that many younger men have.
2006-07-28 13:39:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It always depends on the kind of guy he is. To lump all older men into one category take away the variables that define their personality and help make them attractive. Traits such as a sense of humor, generosity, financial independence, communication skills, etc. all make up an individual no matter what age. Normally older men have all of these factors well established through experience, many times making them more attractive. At the same time, many men, though older don't. It's hard to say....there are many variables.
2006-07-28 13:21:19 · answer #3 · answered by Viennacardinal 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dated this older guy named Ken, he was around 50 and I am in my thirty's. This particular guy, that's all it was about was sex, he never really liked me because of the age difference I suppose. He had a "friend" as he called her that was around his age, that he could relate more, he would take her out, take care of her, all I was, was bed buddie as far as he was concerend.
Now I've dated other older guys that were different, helpful, understanding, caring etc, just like guys my age might do. I think it really does depend on the personality and the man. Just my opinion. Once an idiot always and idiot dosen't matter the age. LOL
2006-07-28 13:22:35 · answer #4 · answered by Barbie doll lover 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no specific age when a person is supposed to be mature, but the statistics are higher around older people, I mean 30-45. At least I know for a fact that I won't date someone 19 again hehe
2006-07-28 14:05:42 · answer #5 · answered by applejuice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 24 and i am talking to a guy that is 34, he does not reminds me of my uncle or grandfather uyyyyyyyyyyy, I think that i like him because like you said he wants things alot life not just sex, he as something stable, dont get me wrong but there are young man that want good things, it depends who are you with, and how the lady present herself to the guy. he will take what you give him. this is my opion, i think just be true to you self and no matter how old or young the love has tobe there
2006-07-28 13:22:11 · answer #6 · answered by pooh_lrh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, but not older than 40
2006-07-28 13:15:52 · answer #7 · answered by mariaoendari 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i love older men simply because they arent as self centered as younger ones, plus they simply have more interesting things to talk about and don't sit on their asses and play video games all day older men are definitely hotter, more caring, interesting, more financially stable, and on a more appropriate emotional level for women than the younger ones are
2006-07-28 13:16:46 · answer #8 · answered by pink f 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes,but the guy can't be no more than 5 years older than me...
2006-07-28 13:17:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
⥠Im not sure what you mean by older guys... like how old they are.... but I like to date guys a few years older then me becuz the conversations are more stimulating and they dont act all immature and stupid.â¥
2006-07-28 13:17:19 · answer #10 · answered by ?Blonde_Queen? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋