She hardly ever bathes him. Everytime he comes to my house, he smells pissy. She complains if my parents or my sister gives him a bath. We have to lie and say he messed his clothes, because we don't want to be like, "he's stink". Help Please!!!!
2006-07-28 06:07:52 · 23 answers · asked by naughty 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
ITS DEPEND HOW OLD WHERE TALKING IF THIS KIDS IS 2 OR 3 YEARS OLD BUY SOME BUBBLE BATH LIKE BABY'S BUBBLE BATH CARTOON CHARACTER SHOW WITH TO THE KIDS AN TELL TO THE KIDS ASK MOMMY IF WE CAN PLAY WITH THIS AND WALLA GO TO THE BATH AND GIVE THEM A BATH NOW WHEN THEY GO HOME HE WILL ASK MOMMY CAN I TAKE BUBBLE BATH LIKE WHAT I DO TO AUNTIES HOUSE
2006-07-28 06:51:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
hmmm...it seems like you are just going to have to tell her regardless of it insults her or not. I mean if her kid is smelling like piss everytime you see him. Something is seriously wrong with her that she isn't bathing her son.
I mean that is just poor hygene and it's sooo unfair to her son because he cannot clean himself at this point and the poor kid has to walk around in his own piss smell!!!
Just tell her "You know I have noticed that so and so smells like urine" or you can tell her that....and then add "soo that is why I gave him a bath". You can just tell her simply...he smelled and he needed a bath. Thats it. Maybe if you tell her the truth she will finally realize that she needs to give her son a bath everyday...especially in the summertime. And then at the very least she will most likely give her son a bath right before she brings him over to your place. After that you need to find a way for him to get a bath for the times that you aren't there.
Ohh buy her some bath toys. Give her some hints ya know if you don't want to straight up tell her the truth.
I really think it is a shame that this lil kid has to walk around with piss smell on him. What a shame.
2006-07-28 06:19:53 · answer #2 · answered by krYpToNitEsMoM 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chances are if you tell her, you will insult her...but hopefully she'll thank you later. if you're like me, you avoid confrontation, however in my eyes, you don't mess with children. Kindly take her aside. Explain to her that you have noticed that Junior has an odor, and you know that sometimes kids get like this even overnight (like if they had a bath the night before). Suggest that she bathe him in the morning, and because kids can just be smelly sometimes maybe she ought to try some baby lotion. If you make it sound like she's not doing anything wrong...she's more likely to take your advice.
Also, if you don't have children, it's best someone talks to her who does have children. Sometimes mommy's get a little defensive if someone who hasn't been a parent is giving them parenting advice. :) Good luck, it's a hard situation...think of what's best for that little guy!
2006-07-28 06:17:04 · answer #3 · answered by Mrs. Lucky 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no way you can be insulting about her not cleaning that child. Tell her he needs a bath and whatever lifestyle she has, she need to pay more attention to her son. He can't bathe hisself.Cleanliness is next to Godliness! I wonder what her home looks and smells like. Then again.I can imagine.
2006-07-28 06:16:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They way that you can tell her without being insulting, is sit her down and tell her the situation that is going on with her son. Let her know that you love her dearly and you don't want to hurt her feelings but you would really appreciate it if she could bathe her son. Just tell her how you feel, it she does not like it then tough.
2006-07-28 06:11:52 · answer #5 · answered by Kidd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is a touch perplexing to appreciate. i imagine u are asking if its alright to have the females bathe with the lads? if so then i ought to assert no. properly a minimum of no longer the 13 12 months previous because she is merely too previous for that. i don't think of its sturdy for the ten 12 months previous women both yet together in the adventure that they don't ideas then why no longer. SEE i'm perplexed reason u stated the females help u bathe the lads? Then meaning they see the brothers bare. and also you do not imagine the females she be bare in the front of their brothers? Why ought to they be allowed to assist and be conscious their brothers bare yet no longer be allowed to be considered bare with suggestions from their brothers? any further perchance merely bathe the lads and easily have the 13 12 months previous help if she needs, yet no longer the ten 12 months previous women. clarify to the lads the females are 10 and they are 10 and six and its no longer properly at that age to bathe mutually, yet at the same time as they were youthful it develop into diverse. wish I were OF help AND IF U choose better suggestion PLEASE be happy TO MSG ME.
2016-11-26 20:54:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's insulting her baby! Speak up for the baby. Don't mind her feelings. She needs to be shaken up! Give the baby a thorough bath so that you're sister in law can see what needs to be done.
2006-07-28 06:12:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your sister in law needs some professional help. Who in their right mind wouldn't want to bathe their child.
2006-07-28 06:11:34 · answer #8 · answered by sara bellum 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say this......."He stinks. Give him a bath, or I'm going to turn the hose on him and you" this should get the message across.
2006-07-28 06:11:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes, the truth hurts. Just tell her she is not taking care of the kid's hygiene and it might make him sick. Or tell your brother to give him a bath if his wife won't do it.
2006-07-28 06:12:46 · answer #10 · answered by 1big teddy graham 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋