Me and my girlfriend have been together for 2 1/2 years, we just split up because she wanted some time to her self.
what should I do!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-07-28 05:59:32 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Take this time to better yourself- keep yourself busy. Don't call her- let her call you when she's done figuring out what she needs to figure out.
2006-07-28 06:03:24 · answer #1 · answered by Amanda80 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her if you've done something to anger her , or to make her feel smothered.then back up & give her some space.don't call for a week at a time , but maybe once a week a quick call to say hello & tell her your thinking of her & that you support her & respect her descision right now.maybe after 3 weeks or so of seperation send her some white roses (they mean purity ) with an inspirational card. If you show her you respect her space , but also show you care w/ out smothering you just might help her with any insecurities she had about your relationship.I know it's hard to stay away , but it's really important not to contact her constantly. this will just make her feel like you don't respect her wishes.
2006-07-28 13:13:58 · answer #2 · answered by andy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it cool man... Some time for herself can mean lots of possibilities... She had another choice? She has no feel for you anymore... Prepare for the worst... or maybe it just turn out that she is testing you... Advice you to take it calmly... Girls dun like possessive relationship...
2006-07-28 13:05:24 · answer #3 · answered by charlie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should just kind of lie low for a while. I think that if you've been going out that long that you should still hang out
2006-07-28 13:05:21 · answer #4 · answered by mattiebouge 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a prostitute and after u blow her and your mind out with awesome sex, call your girl and tell her that it was better this time around
2006-07-28 22:54:54 · answer #5 · answered by civilreddy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you are pestering too much.. give her some time to relax... let her spend her time without you.. if she really loves you she will come back to you. if she don't love you, it is useless to keep her by your side.
2006-07-28 13:04:57 · answer #6 · answered by yiwei_tay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess ask her what made her decide that, and try to hint that you know shes cheating on you,cuz she might be. VERY descretly though.
2006-07-28 13:04:07 · answer #7 · answered by Billy C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
juss tak it easy give her time.... dont freak out she may juss really want time to think stuff over.... dont panic! =0) dont worry b happy!
2006-07-28 13:05:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she's not into you. Let her go.
2006-07-28 13:05:13 · answer #9 · answered by happygirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋