Well, 3 years ago, I have realised something isn't right with my face. I then have realised that one part of my face isnt the same as the other one: it is a bit deformed (but truly visible!). First I was ignoring it and trying not to think about it..but today, I really can't handle it any more. Everyday, I feel so insecure and don't trust looking people or even my friends in the face, because I am affraid they might see it and talk behind my back...and the look into the mirror makes me feel bad every single morning...it really hurts me and I spent a lot of time crying.
I am sure - even know - that my "friend" and others can see it, because sometimes the word "you deformed.." or "down" slips out of their mouth.
The other part of my face is so beautiful...when I cover my "deformed" side I can stare forever in the mirror and I love it. This problem is due - I think - to an accident I had in my childhood when I fell down badly and hit my head against an edge.
I need help...so badly...
2006-07-28 05:47:33 · 2 answers · asked by mary j. 1 in Health ➔ Other - Health
If you are the only one that is seeing it,then no, you don't need a surgeon, you need a physiologist or psychiatrists. The only thing that you could do is look for a reconstructive/plastic surgeon in your area and go for a consultation. Make sure that you see someone that does reconstruction not just plastic (cosmetic)surgery. Good luck with your problem!
2006-07-28 05:53:07 · answer #1 · answered by brittme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This sounds more like an emotional issue rather than something that requires surgery. My first suggestion would be to consult a regular doctor. Get their opinion. If they believe something needs to be done, they can recommend a specialist. Get at least 2 if not more opinions. Insurance will pay for a second opinion in almost all cases (saves them money on misdiagnoses). If you find that doctors do not see a problem, or it is something relatively minor, I would suggest some form of couselling instead. All surgery is dangerous, and can leave you worse off than before. Just look at Mr. Jackson. Surgery should be a last-resort.
2006-07-28 05:54:02 · answer #2 · answered by Joseph C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋