ok me and my boyfriend have been goin out for a year now and we always brake up but it's usly for like a day to be the longest but a couple of weeks ago when we had broke up he him and this girl exchanged number and he was tryin to get wit her and we where only broke for half a day and he just told me about it yesterday and i fill heartbrokin because just the thought of him talkin to sumbody else hurts me and he even said if she would of called he that day he probably would of went to see her..but i fill that he would no not to talk to another girl if we were only broke up for not even a day..an i fill i can't trust him anymore but he beggin for me to forgive him..But i don't no if i'm over thinkin this or if it is that serious
2006-07-28 05:28:57 · 44 answers · asked by hersey.kisses 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
somebody help me get my mind of those little chocolate candy's
2006-07-28 05:34:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When two people end a relationship for whatever amount of time it is natural for a guy to look into other options. He could've met her if she would've called him and nothing may have happened. He may have realized that you are who he belongs with. Sometimes guys look into other options and when they look into other options they realize what they have and how important it is and how much they don't want to lose that. I would try and see if you could work things out with him. Let him try to regain your trust and see if this happens the next time you break up, or maybe you shouldn't break up the next time. I wouldn't give up all hope on him yet. Forgive him and try one more time. That is the only way that you are going to know if he can be trusted and to see if he is really sorry for what he did. If you walk away now you may end up leaving something good behind that could be fixed but you will never know until you try again.
2006-07-28 05:37:32 · answer #2 · answered by busyliz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It appears that you TWO are playing games with each other. Stop the madness. There are more important things in life than "on again - off again" relationships. What's the point? You need to move on and focus on what you want in life...unless you ENJOY playing childish games. A relationship is about two people enjoying each other, and not playing with each other's emotions. In the long run someone will get hurt "emotionally" and once this happens, you have a long road back to healing. Why waste your time going down a dead end street when the sign says "detour" from the beginning!
2006-07-28 05:36:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like both of you need to grow up on the relationship end. If you guys keep breaking up and breaking up but only for a day a time. Then why are you guys breaking up for in the first place. Seems as if you guys have some really bad communicating problems or just plain immaturity. Seems like you have strong feelings for him though so what I would do is forget about this one thing and you both need to think about why you guys break up for in the first place and decide if you two should really be together?!?!?!?!
2006-07-28 05:34:17 · answer #4 · answered by browneyegirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are young. Anyone who breaks up and gets back together continuously for a year, there are some real issues of maturity. Whatever the reason the problem is, it needs to be worked on and if you can't work on it why waste a year of your life. He was broke up with you when he got the number. What do you expect. Broke up means not together.
2006-07-28 05:33:15 · answer #5 · answered by Snuffy Smith 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe all this breakingup on a regular basis, has made him believe that you really dont care for each other. That he is unsertain whether the two of you have a future together at all.
You can talk this over with him. If he hasn't allready left you for her. Talk about it - tell him how you feel. That you are sorry things ended up like this. That you love him and that you want the two of you to be together. If you agree to stay together after this: Stop this breaking-up theme.
Good luck : )
2006-07-28 05:34:20 · answer #6 · answered by Tones 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get over this, if you keep breaking up and getting back together, there must be a reason. You cannot be upset if he is talking to other women, especially if you cannot keep it together.
It didn't happen, and getting upset over what might have happened only shows how insecure you are with him. Call his bluff, tell him that if he wants to talk to other girls, fine, but don't expect you to sit home and wait, two can play this game. Chances are he likes that you are so worried, and is playing off of your desperation. Play a little harder to get girl!!
2006-07-28 05:36:44 · answer #7 · answered by kackaway 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You two are both just playing at this relationship. Break up, move on, give yourself some me time before you think about having another boyfriend. Think about the qualities you want in a guy and look for that -- but later, not on the rebound.
2006-07-28 05:31:44 · answer #8 · answered by jboatright57 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forgive him. Evrybody deserves a second chance. Plus you shouldn't brake up because of a fight. You should have some time alone then apologize. That's way easier. And if what he did ever happens again, leave him. A third chance is too much too ask for.
2006-07-28 05:34:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
take a brake and do see ather peaple chances are your not right for each ather if your braking up all the time even for just one day take a 3 month brake and dont have contact if its real it will still be there if its not it wount hurt so much to move on
2006-07-28 05:34:32 · answer #10 · answered by letta g 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this relationship really making you happy?
If you keep breaking up and getting back together how does that make you feel? Are you getting back together with him because you really love him or because you just don't want to be alone? If you really love each other, why do you keep breaking up?
In my experience, when people play the yo-yo relationship game it's because they really shouldn't be together in the first place, but neither one has the stregnth to say "Enough, it's time we moved on."
Do you want to be the one in this relationship who is strong enough to say that or do you want to be the one in this relationship who that is told to?
It's up to you.
2006-07-28 05:32:58 · answer #11 · answered by Tamborine 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋