i was really messed up on drugs i no its no excuse but its wat happened my son who is now 7/n daughter 9 live with there dad n my eldest daughter 12 lives with my mum n dad i see the eldest child on a regular basis but the youngest two there father refuses to let me see them
2006-07-28 05:22:43 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I was a foster parent for years and I can tell you that no matter what the parents did or did not do, these kids still loved their moms. Go to court, get visitation rights. If you have given up your parental rights, then you would have to wait until they grow up and they will look you up if you make yourself available to them. I had children whose parents beat them, abandoned them, burned with cigarettes, starved them but they still wanted their moms. Does the 12 year old talk to her brother and sister? If so, she could tell them that mom has changed and loves them very much and would like to see them. You could also talk to the ex husband and let him know that you are very sorry for leaving them. If you have not given up parental rights, then get a lawyer or a legal aid (free) attorney and get visitation rights to visit your children. Build the relationship from there. Don't let them forget you. Good luck in seeing your kids. I hope it works out because kids need their real mom. Gail
2006-07-28 05:35:47 · answer #1 · answered by aftermidnite 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-08 10:27:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think your children will forgive you even if they get to see you, especially the youngest two because there father refuses to let them see you and he probably doesnt like you and says alot of $hit about you to them.
2006-07-28 05:29:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might want to try and explain that you were on drugs. Tell them people on drugs sometimes do things they wouldn't normally do. Tell them that even though you weren't around you still loved them. They will forgive you. Everyone makes mistakes it's a part of life.
2006-07-28 05:30:58 · answer #4 · answered by Rachel Bitchface 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is good you can admit your mistake. Children are very resilient and can adapt to anything. Your many problem is going to be what their father has told them because they do look at him as their main provider. Start your relationship slow when you have a chance. You are their mother they will always remember that. Good Luck
2006-07-28 05:30:21 · answer #5 · answered by fun2bme77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it is a hard situation. There's no room for excuses for you. Just hope they will forgive you because you carried them for 9 months.
2006-07-28 05:27:27 · answer #6 · answered by Leprechaun 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they probably will forgive u they are young yet and u are mom they probaly miss u right now the only bad thing is that dad might try to brain wash them to not make them want u
2006-07-28 05:55:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pray to God and ask him for forgiveness, he will make it right, even if that means not letting you see the kids, he knows what is in the best interest for you, just pray and trust him
2006-07-28 05:27:11 · answer #8 · answered by Pobedy S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi try to be good in future. and keep on trying. if u really wish u can re-unit at least your childrens father mothers and sis bro etc.
2006-07-28 06:00:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If my parents did that to me and were that selfish, I would not forgive them.
2006-07-28 05:33:26 · answer #10 · answered by sweetnessmo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋