For some reason I just cant stop thinking about my girlfriends past boyfriends. It really bugs me. I know she loves me and wants to be with me, but still i think about it sometimes. It's probly my insecurities, but can anyone help me try and get these thoughts out of my head? (I'm not threatened by them, i just want anything to do wiht them out of my head, forever, so i dont give myself more stress in my head.)
2006-07-28 05:21:14 · 8 answers · asked by someoneelse 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hmm.. Just think about her, how cute and nice she is..Does she make you happy? Does she love you? Does she respect you? IF yes, tell yourself that's what's important. She is her, right now and always with or without her past. And she is yours.
Don't be stressed anymore :)
2006-07-28 05:25:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you are obviously insecure with yourself. Try some time without your girlfriend for a while to see how much you miss her. Just don't cheat on her whatever you do. Your insecurities will probably drive your girlfriend away if you keep it up. Everyone has a past, even you and if you don't think yours is any less important than someone else's forget it! You will never be happy if you keep that **** up.
2006-07-28 05:27:07 · answer #2 · answered by sweetypie9 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex was just like you. I didn't think it was much of his business what went on in my past. He just couldn't except that I just like him had a past. He would always ask about what went on, how many guys I'd been with, how many times I had sex with each guy. All these questions to be were unnecessary. Then he would get mad at me if I didn't tell him the answer to his questions. If you don't want to loose your g/f I suggest you change your ways. Its your insecurity you need to deal with. If she was with someone in her past deal with it! the key word is past. You need to move on from that.
2006-07-28 05:40:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you not think that your GF thinks about your past and who you have been with. You have to think about the future, what your going to do with her and the memories you both are going to be making together. If you cant do this, you will lose not only her, but your mind. Good Luck
2006-07-28 05:26:44 · answer #4 · answered by krsha79 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't give it up, you'll never be happy. Everyone has a past. You need to remember that they are with YOU in the present.
2006-07-28 05:23:48 · answer #5 · answered by Tina T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How many bf has she had? If it's more than 5 she's used goods. Get rid of her!!
2006-07-28 05:27:10 · answer #6 · answered by sara bellum 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice to you...is to start drinking...heavily... hehe ("Animal House") and grow up little boy
2006-07-28 05:25:05 · answer #7 · answered by westcrush 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get penis enlargement surgery -- then you have a chance
2006-07-28 05:24:59 · answer #8 · answered by Smiley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋