If my boyfriend is telling me to go out on my own with my friends? is it a sign that he has something to do tonight with another woman?? or is it that he loves me too myuch please advise.
2006-07-28 05:15:40 · 20 answers · asked by Dee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I will tell you what it is. he is going out with his friend and he doesn't want you to be there. He loves u don't get it wrong, but sometimes he will want to have his space. I will bet u 50 on that!! Just stay calm and watch how things goes.
2006-07-28 06:57:07 · answer #1 · answered by Mamamia 5 · 11⤊ 0⤋
It is either a sign that he has something to do that he doesn't want you to know about or be involved in or else he is wanting some time to himself. There comes times in a relationship where two people are together all the time and they get smothered and bored being around that person after awhile and they need time to themselves. I have had that happen to me in relationships before, it is not a bad thing, it is ok to still have a social life outside your relationship without your significant other there all the time. He may just need time to be alone with his friends as well or else he needs time to himself. You are the one in the relationship with him , you know whether or not he is trustworthy of what he is suggesting. He could be doing something he shouldn't but you have to be the one to decide if you trust him to be honest and not do something he shouldn't .
2006-07-28 12:24:04 · answer #2 · answered by busyliz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are reading way to much into this. He probably just wants some time on his own. Most people like alone time. You do have to understand you just can't hang out with the same person all day every day.
2006-07-28 12:17:44 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm...It may be innocent but then again, he is a guy. How long have you guys been dating? Has he done this before? What are his plans for the night? Is he hanging out with his buddies? Are his buddies trustworthy and do they like you? I think that you should go out with your friends but make sure you ask him what he is doing. Good luck!
2006-07-28 12:21:29 · answer #4 · answered by simpleplan0013 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your thinking worse case scenario with the another woman without more information hard to tell. if your the clingy type of woman that loves to be around her man 24/7 then maybe your suffocating him.
2006-07-28 12:18:33 · answer #5 · answered by sugrdady03 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could mean he's tellin you to go out and have fun cause thats what he wants to do! Or he could just really love and trust you and want you to go out and have fun with your friends still...This can have two different sides to it!...If you to have a serious and honest relationship I would say that he just wants you to go out and have fun becuase he knows your coming home to him at night! But if you guys fight a lot...I wouldnt put it past him if hes going out with someone else!
2006-07-28 12:19:34 · answer #6 · answered by Kate 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that's anything to be worried about. I think that he simply cares about you too much for you to be tied down to only seeing him all the time. I think he wants to make sure you maintain a healthy relationship with your friends and not feel restricted. Don't worry about it :)
2006-07-28 12:18:38 · answer #7 · answered by pieninja 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With my experience....I would take that as he has "Special" plans tonight...and he knows that if your out with your friends...you won't really worry about it.
2006-07-28 12:20:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Means he wants some space or hes cheating..
2006-07-28 12:18:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe, he trusts you, and wants you to have the benefit of having time with yourself.
2006-07-28 12:19:30 · answer #10 · answered by kittykat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋