2006-07-28 04:52:56 · 20 answers · asked by Lillian Rose 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe they were friends b4 they were lovers. sometimes thats the case although when you break up sometime you may loose your friend but my best suggestion is to ask him this question instead of us. talk to him. communication is key in a relationship. ask him to be straight forward with u. tell him if he still has feelings just tell u so u wont be accusing him of things that's not true. and if he does then you two should talk about them so that you can be clear on the topic and open with each other. so that he wont just hope up on day and say it's over cause he's with his ex again
2006-07-28 05:03:29 · answer #1 · answered by brownsuga 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
I don't think anyone can tell you for certain his intent. I can say after looking at your photos and reading your 360. If he still has feelings for someone who dumped him and now he has you then he is crazy to want anything to do with her. putting your looks aside (which is hard to do) but reading your words you sound like a very nice person and you appear to have your life pretty much in order. I say he is a lucky man. It is hard to find someone who is honest and loving and caring and also looks great too. Just keep your eye out and make sure this guy deserves you because I can promise many men would jump through hoops to gain your attention. However I am not saying he doesn't think your great and isnt the type to have friends from a past relationship that is non-sexual he very well could be. Just know you have a lot to offer, just make sure your man does as well. Best of luck and by the way great 360.
2006-07-28 05:10:46 · answer #2 · answered by Savage 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The rules of relationships are this. #1 You meet someone and stay together forever. #2 You break up at some point(split up, get dumped, whatever) #3 You are together and one or both people die. That is it. 1 of those 3 conditions happen. That is how it is. What people do after that is up to them. If you are secure with your releationship and treat your man right, you should worry about nothing. If you feel like he might EVER leave you for her. Then work on your relationship with him so that he has no reason to ever think of her. If you are a stellar girlfriend, he will forget about her.
2006-07-28 05:00:01 · answer #3 · answered by sodafan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how long it was between the time they split and the time that you two got together but you might want to make sure that he is over her and he is not on rebound. Some men to want to keep their exes as friends, it depends on how the relationship was, but there was usually a frienship there first before they got romantic with each other. I would watch my back with them two, because he might still have feelings for her and wanting to stay close to her to see if she will change her mind about leaving him. You need to talk to him about this and clarify what he wants and what his intentions are in this situation to make sure that you are not going to get hurt. There could be many reasons he could have to want to keep her around as a friend. You need to talk to him about this and find out what he has to say about it but I bet he still has feelings for her and he is waiting to see if he has another shot of getting back in her good graces. Make sure you are not rebound for him.
2006-07-28 05:03:16 · answer #4 · answered by busyliz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people stay friends with their exes. I do, when I can. I mean, who can afford to give up a good friend just because you didn't work out romantically?
PS: My sister's name is Lillian Rose!
2006-07-28 04:55:05 · answer #5 · answered by effin drunk 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your jus jealous, you have to remember these people spent a certain amount of time together and there will always be a bond. So dont let your jelousy stop him from talking to his x. I'm sure u still talk to ur x, dont u?
2006-07-28 05:10:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a problem with that too . I told him that it really bothered me and he stopped talking to her. I mean the girl was cheating on him, not calling him and everything and he was still her friend but just tell him that it bothers you. Good Luck!!
2006-07-28 05:12:18 · answer #7 · answered by sincereshay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, i think of which you need to shop your distance from this boy. He feels like a foul piece of artwork and in basic terms thoroughly rid him of your existence. despite in case you need to in basic terms be being paranoid approximately all of this, so perchance in basic terms wait a whilst to work out how issues opened up and if theres from now on signs and indications then thoroughly close him out of your existence. acquaintances do no longer artwork. believe me. additionally i dont be responsive to this boy yet is he the form ware you have got a actual heart to heart long talk? if so then confer with him and tell him what you sense. Its is a yet obvious that he's in basic terms using you despite if he could nevertheless incredibly such as you and shop on desirous to be your buddy for actual? the main suitable individual to choose for what to do is you with the aid of fact you have been with him for 4.5 years and no person could be responsive to extra effectual the thank you to handle this then you quite. sturdy success and that i'm hoping this all works out in the tip!
2016-10-08 10:25:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it all depends were they friends before the got together, but even though you might want to watch out. just keep an eye on them . but more then anything just trust him, show him that you dont mine, and everything will work itself out,
2006-07-28 05:13:59 · answer #9 · answered by wcenice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he still have a hope, or want to have a back out plan in case the you 2 dont work out
2006-07-28 04:56:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋