HELP guy problems Need Advice?

Question

i like this guy and he likes me but im not supposed to know that. i asked a question like this b4 but i couldnt do anything. hes really sweet but i dont know how to approach him. he text me like a couple months ago and i told him i shouldnt really text so much( cause i dont have a plan 4 that) but he took it as i dont want to talk to u again on my phone texting and i want to text him just to say hi. should i. i need advice from a guy or grl doesnt matter just HELP

Answer 1

You don't have to be so forward as to let him know how you feel. Obviously you're not comfortable doing that at the moment and it seems that you're friendship/relationship with him is not at that point yet. Texting him is not a bad idea, you dont have to say much...just something to let him know that you're thinking about him and that you do care and want to talk to him. Maybe something along the lines of "Hey, just wanted to see how you're doing?" "Thinking about ya so I wanted to say hi." etc. I'm sure you can think of the right thing to say...something that might encourage him to call or respond. (I also know you dont want texting to get outta hand..hopefully he remembers what you said...in fact this may work to your advantage...he might think that you're texting is a statement that you care (inspite of the charges that he knows you have to pay for).

You can do other things to let him know that you're present. Not all women/girls are comfortable with being so straight forward..and often it's about being present; by that I mean make yourself available and present in his life...whether its texting, im-ing, calling, or hanging out...it's a progession but you'll get there I'm sure since he already likes you.

Lastly, don't get nervous just be confident knowing that he likes you already! You've already won the prize, you just have to claim it =) Good luck with it!!!

Answer 2

First of all, have you not talked to him since that text several months ago? Maybe you can renew his interest and that exciting spark with an email, a phone call, a letter, any type of communication would be simple to be able to get him thinking about you.

You already have the hardest issue solved: knowing he likes you too. If there's truly no wondering for you how he feels about you then go and take a chance, make an opportunity to talk or see each other, just a calm dinner out, catch a movie, do something you know he likes, a sporting event, someplace he will feel comfortable and relaxed. Make him have fun with you, even if its just talking and being out together. Then after that night, he'll be sure to call you.

I would be interested in knowing more so I can help you better. How long have you known him? Did you ever flirt with him, go on any dates? What kind of communication have you had with him and how often?

The most important thing to do is get him thinking about you and to let him know how you feel about him, and its doesn't mean you have to come striaght out and tell him, maybe show him you like him by the way you interact with him, give him a compliment, get to know his interests and pretty soon he will be asking about you too, wanting to know more about you.

Answer 3

well u should text him saying that you didin't mean that u don' t want ot talk to him on the texting thing all the time but every once in a while is okay and u should tell him that u like him and that u guys should go get something to eat or that u guys can go to a movie but not as a couple just as friends and then if he feels comfortable around u then he might ask u out. and u should text him saying hi cause that will help him understand that u like him

best of luck please e-mail e if u have anymore questions or problems and i am 14yrs old

Answer 4

Perhaps we can be a bit more adult about this. Try asking him out to something casual, coffee/lunch or a drink. Something during the day is always more casual then something in the evening. That may set the tone for a second date.

Answer 5

This is a very easy problem to fix. Just tell the guy you like him. you know he likes you already so there is nothing to loose on your end. You will only loose if you wait to long and never get the chance to say or act how you feel.

Answer 6

My niece is nineteen and knocked up with the aid of a 40 year previous guy. Her existence is effectively ruined till she is 40 or so. She is in entire denial. do no longer make the comparable mistake she has made. Use a condom. Use hormonal delivery administration too.

Answer 7

Just txt him 2 say hi and ask him if he is mad at u. He will hav 2 txt u bac or call u sometime.

Answer 8

girl go 4 it! let him no how u feel. it could work out. im in the same situation go look and my latest question! it will work out just go 4 it

Answer 9

Okay talk to him and tell you still want to talk and everything, you just can't text.

Answer 10

hell ya you gotta text him. how is he supposed to know if you like him if you don't? if you like this guy the only way anything will happen is if you make it somewhat apparent that you like him. good luck!