how do i help my girlfriend stop crying when she gives me a Bj?

Question

when she starts she's okay but after a good min. she breaks down in tears. i tell her she doesnt have to keep on but she always tells me its okay and keeps on, she knows how to give a good bj but its the crying im worried about. i dont nutt in her mouth or anything disrespectful

Answer 1

Have thought she may be crying with laughter !!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 2

Crying Bj

Answer 3

how do you know a guy diddnt force oral sex on her?! as a child? there is a problem if it makes her cry, but she wants to keep doing it?even if you say she can stop? not buying it....she was repeatedly forced by SOMEONE at some point, maybee that person told her it was the only way for her to please a man? in some way she feels like you have to have that bj or you wont be happy, weather it is you that has made her feel this way, or that she thinks that about all men.

ask her, something is not right....stop letting her give you bj...dont put her through that...seems she will always tell you everything is ok, when you can see its not.

Answer 4

Did it ever occur to u that she's doing it to please u but she cries because she doesn't like doing it.. many women think it's degrading because of what can come out during the act.. Plus why do u keep allowing her to finish knowing she's gonna start crying a river..how can u even enjoy that..

Have a sit down with her and ask her why does she cry and that there r other ways to peasure u besides given u a BJ.. when she starts to go down u pull her back up..

Answer 5

Sound like their might be something deeper then what she has told you. Maybe some kind of abuse when she was little. Ask her about it cause this problem won't go away. Tell her that whatever she tells you won't leave your mouth and that she can trust you with whatever it is. She might not tell you the first time, but keep bringing it up when she does it or when the timing is right. You must get to the bottom of it though....

Answer 6

I don't mean to be disrespectful...but i am on the floor laughing my *** off right now!!! U can help her stop crying by not shoving your D*** in her mouth!!! HOLY CRAP!!! she obviously does not want to do it.....she doesnt mind but once she realizes what she is doing...she may not like it!!! Talk to her about this before she starts giving you a BJ-once she starts and sees that u r enjoying it...she may feel bad stopping cause she thinks u may feel mad-or maybe she wants to finish what she started!!!

Answer 7

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Answer 8

There are two issues here. First of all, if she is crying, you should realize that there is something in her past that is making her cry. If you realize that, then you need to stop having her do it. It is just for your enjoyment, so if you care about her, stop it. Second, if she has an issue, she needs to seek counseling, and not from you. She needs an expert. Good Luck

Answer 9

are u guys young? or are u her 1st bf? actually i understand..i used to feel that way too, for some reason i would want to cry. i had no explanation for it... except that i think it made me feel a little "dirty".... like i used to be a good girl and that to do something like this was somehow wrong. even if she wants to do it at first, just the act can make a woman feel really bad about herself...it goes away, but it takes time. i think there's something about feeling u are giving your ALL to someone, and that they might not love you enough. just be sensitive and caring and make sure u tell her u love her. make her feel safe and secure, so that she won't feel guilty or sad doing that for you. doing that doesn't make a girl dirty, but for a newbie it can feel really scary. i think it's great that u want to help her get thru it... just care about her emotions and do all u can to make her feel loved.

Answer 10

She has been abused. Do not let her give you a BJ anymore. Get her to see a counselor to talk about what happened to her before it overcomes her life. She needs help coping with what has happened to her and she needs it now.

Answer 11

If i was you i would sit down and ask her whats the matter. But at the moment you shouldn't even be letting her do that if you care about her. Find out whats the matter.Your strange if you let her keepgoing. thats just wrong. Talk toher dude your suppose to be her man, not a man who just thinks with his dick. Gosh