help!my net friend had praposed me 6 months before.first i said yes then i thought that it was just attraction.then i refused him.but he is still ready to accept me if i feel that it is love.i m not able to decide.he often ring me in my cell & so what i do.i often think of him.is this love or attraction.most imp thing that we had not seen each other but his family members know about me.what should i do?will i accept his love or not.plz help & plz ans seriously its a humble request.
2006-07-28 04:38:01 · 10 answers · asked by soumya_shrivastava 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Is he in your country? Have you already fulfilled your life goals?
You have to know if his proposal is a serious one before you make any decisions. People on the internet will tell you all sort of stuff, and if you have only met the guy online for 6 months and never seen each other face to face, then you really don't know what you may be getting into.
If you can meet, then do that. Then you can really see if there is a emotional conection and attraction. If he is willing to do this then you can determined if he is serious about getting married and you will clear up all of your doubts.
Follow your instinct. Marriage is a life long commitment and if you are not ready or you are unsure, then don't, otherwise you are in danger or making a mistake that you won't be able to fix.
Good luck
2006-07-28 04:51:16 · answer #1 · answered by Blunt 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If I'm reading your question right, you have not met him yet face to face. If that's correct - you need to meet him. What he is on the phone and through e-mail and chatting on the internet could be completely different than how he is in real life - it could be an act. Only once you have met him will you be able to decide for yourself and this is one question you alone have to answer - none of us here can help you.
Meet him, spend the day with him, have a meal with him and then decide. If you think you can spend every day for the rest of your life with him after spending a day with him, then you'll know if it is love or attraction. At the end of the day, it is about longevity and whether or not your relationship will last through all the ups and downs that will help you make your decision.
2006-07-28 13:19:03 · answer #2 · answered by Patricia D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have never been into the whole internet dating thing. It doesn't mean that this couldn't work out. But I really feel that you need to meet in public with a group date kind of thing and more than just once. Get to know what he really looks like, talks like. I understand you've talked on the cell, he's talked to his family about you, and you've talked to him on the internet. But I would give actual live person dating and spending time before really giving an answer. If he truely is interested, he will understand. It sounds like he's rushing it. But that is my opinion.
2006-07-28 09:57:07 · answer #3 · answered by Mae V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you love someone you have never met? If you really think you might be interested in this guy, you need to spend time with him in person. Don't go to see him though, it might not be safe. Tell him to come to you. Do you have family members who can be with you when you meet him? You should not consider marriage until you have had a real relationship (not phone or computer) for at least a year.
2006-07-28 06:03:45 · answer #4 · answered by Tiss 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NEVER marry someone you havent even met. I speak from experience that there are freaks out there. They seem nice to chat and talk with BUT you never know a person until you spend time with them in person. Ask to meet. Date a little.... and gradually over time (after a year or two of spending real time together) then think about the big M!
2006-07-28 05:46:23 · answer #5 · answered by Queen Nefertiti 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer is a blind "NO". Some marriages fail now-a-days even after months together of moving with each other...
U seems taking life easily, wake up and enjoy in life, but dont play with you life my dear.
Let you net friend be with you for considerable time till you both get to know each other, and then after that you decide what to do with that guy...
Im sure you will definitely find a change in your present way of thinking to that way of thinking.....
gud luck ..........Cheers.....
2006-07-28 06:49:23 · answer #6 · answered by Good Samaritan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
by no ability get urself in a severe relationship suitable now. in case you think of which you're nicely suited, wait a minute, its what each and all the youngsters at this point think of. So, the main suitable suggestion is to maintain the relatioonship on a sturdy point and dont get severe approximately it quickly. in basic terms attempt thinking approximately it, what you will do after he proposes you. You havent seen completer 18 years of spring and you talk approximately LOVE? nicely, dont bypass deep or you will drawn your self at this mandatory age of studying approximately relationship. Bye and Take care.
2016-10-08 10:21:07 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is attention not love spend time together then you will know about the love thing
2006-07-28 05:03:05 · answer #8 · answered by devika h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont see how it could be love just over the net.
2006-07-28 04:46:17 · answer #9 · answered by sweetnessmo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to think this one out
2006-07-28 05:33:31 · answer #10 · answered by musiclover 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋