I have agreed to step in as best man for a Freinds wedding in September as the original Best man has backed out with Nerves. However there are two problems that i have, 1. I slept with the Bride to be about 3 years ago, just before the two got together, 2. The maid of Honour' sister is my ex that i split up with about 2 months ago. I have kinda kept my new Girlfreind away from the whole thing and this will be the first meeting of the two.
Do i have anything to worry about, or should i back out and not go ?
Help pls.
2006-07-28 04:32:55 · 15 answers · asked by Ross B 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go for it, don't worry. You and the bride its a past thing...just dont mention it in the speach! The maid of honour might find it hard to see you with your new g.friend but everyone has to move on.
As for your new girlfriend, what has she got to worry about...you are all hers now and this is your chance to show her off, shes going to be feeling fab that you want to take her and everyone meet her
2006-07-28 04:38:28 · answer #1 · answered by emma b 4 · 14⤊ 3⤋
First, you are doing this for your friend. Second, tell your current girlfriend about what you have shared with us. If you want her to attend the wedding with you, doesn't she have the right to know beforehand. She doesn't need to experience any unexpected surprises from the ladies of your past life.
Third, all of the people involved in the wedding should remember that it's the bride & groom's day not yours. Good Luck
2006-07-28 04:42:27 · answer #2 · answered by NyteWing 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's your friends big day, if these other people had any morals they wouldnt let past affect the big day for the people involved. Had a similar sort of wedding day myself but all went fine on the day!
Good luck, remember this is about your friend getting married anything else is irrelevant.
Hope you all have a good day!
2006-07-28 04:40:22 · answer #3 · answered by Fiona 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like Best Man the movie. Maybe, you should go ahead.
2006-07-28 04:35:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to fake your death or something, it sounds like a situation that could get really messy, especially if the bloke doesn't know you've shagged his wife to be. I think you should get out as quick as possible!
2006-07-28 04:37:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do get around, don't you? Nothing to worry about. Just do your beat without batting an eyelid and keep your zip up!
2006-07-28 04:42:45 · answer #6 · answered by violeo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it...record your speech and send it to me. how was the bride to be in the sack...
2006-07-28 04:43:05 · answer #7 · answered by mick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't really think its about you,,, just keep your pants on for the day and you should be fine...
2006-07-28 04:36:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you're certainly not short of material.
2006-07-28 04:36:38 · answer #9 · answered by Fatboy_Howie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only a man can get in deep **** and get away with it go for it #uck it!!!
2006-07-28 05:46:13 · answer #10 · answered by Jen B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋