she is so lost and so tight
2006-07-28 04:19:35 · 7 answers · asked by scary 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she does not want me to help her, she say she wants to learn on her own, i dont mind but she get mad when i tell her, to go slower, faster, harder, softer
2006-07-28 04:29:54 · update #1
good question. how do i give one?
2006-07-28 04:22:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You guys should be able to talk about these things. If you can't you're going to have problems. Just tell her that while you're enjoying what she's doing sometimes "in the heat of the moment" you need her to do things a certain way. That way you're getting what you need. Just don't be surprised if she turns around and starts telling you that you may not be doing things exactlly as she needs them done either. You don't have to wait until you're "in the mood" to have these conversations although discussing them at the dinner table isn't exactly appropriate. Good luck
2006-07-28 11:44:22 · answer #2 · answered by christina s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be open and honest. Tell her that you want to teach her some things about what pleases you and in return you would like her to teach you things she thinks you ought to know. (trust me, there's always something) If you can take the criticism and the lesson without getting pissy than so should she.
2006-07-28 11:24:39 · answer #3 · answered by Phaylynn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you cant answer that question no one can. If you dont like it tight then tell her to loosen the grip. Of course shes lost. She doesn't have one. Your finding it hard to show her so how do you think she feels ?
2006-07-28 11:24:01 · answer #4 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find some movies on the internet.
2006-07-28 11:23:17 · answer #5 · answered by Neuroscientist 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously you are not a good teacher....so forget it.
Show her a few porns.
2006-07-28 11:23:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be nice about it and tell her the truth
2006-07-28 11:50:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋