Just about any guy would say their ideal woman would be one with a perfect body (full breast, thin waist, long legs, full behind, etc), would wear a minimal amount of clothes and always be ready to have wild "fun". But aren't there some guys, if they're not too shallow, that know that deep down inside, they'd much prefer a woman who was modestly feminine? Like, they would say in an instant they'd much prefer a perfect babe to date, but if they really thought about it, they'd prefer a real mature woman? I was just curious... so, I'd only like real answers please. Nothing dirty, too short like just "no" or whatever. Only good and serious answers please... thank you!
2006-07-28 04:11:00 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just one more thing: "perfect" was just a matter of speaking; I know well enough nothing is perfect! :)
2006-07-28 04:49:33 · update #1
I thought it was obvious that what I simply meant is this:
If there were a woman who had big breasts and a large behind (which seems to be what just about any man is going on about) and is always ready for wild fun, but if there were a woman with a good body, though not necessarily as "hot", but had better brains, which would you choose?
2006-07-28 05:29:00 · update #2
I think I would go far beyond just looks, though after saying that, certainly physical attraction is important as well. I would need someone who is thoughtful, caring, understanding, someone who is emotionally secure, financially responsible, and trustworthy. I like a woman who has a creative mind, who can keep up in a conversation even if it's not her best known topic. I would prefer to date a woman who has her own opinions, and still is open minded enough to allow those opinions to be altered if there's a valid basis for it. But not so open minded that she's able to be convinced to change her mind on her strongest opinions. Someone who is good with children is a big plus to me, since I have a daughter. The woman should be able to forgive people when they've done wrong, though I would never expect that they might forget the act. She should be confident about herself, but at the same time not arrogant about it either. A woman with a high sex drive is always a plus as well.
2006-07-28 04:16:44 · answer #1 · answered by loving father 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not really giving enough information here to work with. Are you saying that the woman only has a perfect body and no personality or brain? Obviously, the ideal woman would have a perfect body, a great personality, be mature, be wild with you, etc. I don't think dressing skimpy has anything to do with being immature or mature. I prefer a woman who dresses classy as opposed to trashy myself but I don't see how the clothing matters. Regardless, I would rather date someone whom I find attractive (meaning she does not have to have a perfect body), get along with, is mature and grounded, has a compatible personality, than go out with someone who only has a body and is devoid of any other qualities.
2006-07-28 11:25:08 · answer #2 · answered by jdscorrupted 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer is "yes"...there are plenty of guys who seek the type of woman you describe as "mature". The challenge is to find a guy who is equally mature. He will have had enough "fun" to realize, firsthand, that the physical attraction and good sex goes away after a time and leaves you with only the true quality of the woman you have chosen. Character, values, enthuiasms, proclivities, intellect, goals, fears...these are all the things it is a JOY to take time learning about someone who you share that intial "wow" with. I guess it depends on what the fellow is seeking: A short term interaction or a longer term relationship.
2006-07-28 11:18:44 · answer #3 · answered by westgaliberty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At first most guys would go for the incredibly attractive woman, but if there was no personality or intelligence to back it up i think most men would leave her from sheer lack of interest on a deeper level than appearance.
2006-07-28 11:23:36 · answer #4 · answered by David C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ideal woman, is one who has many different aspects to her personality. I like beauty, charm, and wit. I also like playful, kinky, and naughty.
There is no such thing as a perfect person; however, I have much more respect for someone who messes up and takes responsibility, rather than someone who likes to play drama based games.
2006-07-28 11:22:45 · answer #5 · answered by The Stranger 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes we would like the perfect woman, but if we found a funny girl who was great to talk to and enjoyed being in each otehrs company then she dosen't have to be totally perfect, besides who is?
2006-07-28 11:16:43 · answer #6 · answered by Edward M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me physical aspects is not that important. If there is no "Chemistry" between me and that perfect woman (if there's any) then there is no reason to keep a relation. ^_^
2006-07-28 11:39:22 · answer #7 · answered by Muymoy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have always been attracted to more mature women, not necessarily girls who look like models. In fact, I think women who are more 'normal' looking are more attractive.
2006-07-28 11:18:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋