he claims he love me alot .but the problem is i'm scared he is going to do it again.how do i handle this situation.
2006-07-28 03:47:12 · 16 answers · asked by princess11 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
"Once a cheater, always a cheater" is true. I think that certain people just have a tendency to cheat. If he really loved you, he would never have betrayed your trust. Keeping yourself wrapped up in a guy who doesn't care for you enough not to hurt you like this, and then to manipulate you with "oh baby"s and "I love you"s is self destructive. I hate to see girls waste their youth and energy on men who don't deserve them. Respect youself and learn your lesson and move on.
2006-07-28 03:55:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's possible, it depends on "why he did it the first time" But then again maybe he wanted to experiment you know boys, he might stop but no guarantees.
Now if you love him you'll give him another chance since we are all sinners in this world, we all should be willing to give each other a chance. Good luck girl.
All the best...
2006-07-28 19:00:44 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Likely to.
If you want to keep him, act like leaving him, don't contact him for a week or more.
If he wants to get back, just nail him to know that he is not going to be accepted next time, and she's never going to forget what he cheated for the rest of his life!
That will shiver him up.
2006-07-28 03:53:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chances are, once a cheater always a cheater. If it was me, I would not trust him. At least keep your heart a little distant until he earns your trust back. If he really loved you, he wouldn't have ever hurt you like that. He wouldn't have even thought about another woman.
2006-07-28 03:51:57 · answer #4 · answered by Xena 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He more or less will do it again unfortunately. Next time you just might not catch him out. If you take him back you wont be happy anyway you will constantly be wondering "where is he," "whats he doing ",Who is he with". You have lost all trust in him, but then you are the one who will have to deal with it and only you will have to decide what you want to do.
2006-07-28 04:06:17 · answer #5 · answered by mermaiden_4_ever 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah he most likely will cheat again especially if you forgive him, he'l take you forgiving him as an opportunity to do it again with the gurantee you'l give him another chance, if hes prepared to cheat on you once hel do it again he obviously doesnt have enough respect for you, your relationship or your "love" to stay commited to you and you only.. but if you wanna give him a second chance its upto you just be prepared to have your heart broken again..
2006-07-28 03:55:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im pretty sure the chances are high for him to cheat again.
if you really love this guy, give him a 2nd chance. but i always say 2nd chances should be given to people who deserve it.
think long about this..!
2006-07-28 03:53:22 · answer #7 · answered by azndiva 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he cheated on u before then yes he is going to do it again get ready for a heart ache
2006-07-28 03:55:27 · answer #8 · answered by Curtis P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what he cheated on you, if he two-timed you, its more likely that he does it again if you forgives him that easily, he will take advantage of your sympathy and beg for your forgiveness the next time he does it.
2006-07-28 03:52:00 · answer #9 · answered by Ching y 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think the question is...do u love him...and if u do..are u willing to risk ur heart being broken again
2006-07-28 03:51:05 · answer #10 · answered by Kris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋