2006-07-28 03:28:00 · 19 answers · asked by binniepinnie23456 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, you tell me: what happens if you don't:
- really put each other first (even before Mom and Dad)
- take complete responsibility for the consequences of what you're doing (again, instead of coming crying to Mom and Dad when you have problems)
- take (together with him) complete responsibility for your life together, and
- make a permanent commitment?
Here's what happens: you get third parties intruding on your relationship and/or a breakup. And when that happens, you find out too late that such things are NOT supposed to happen after you've had sex.
Well, what I described above is the essence of marriage. It not only spares you trouble, but also respects your partner, he knows where he stands with you and can have confidence that he's the most important to you. And it respects the God who will bind you together when you consummate your relationship.
Bottom line: leave father and mother, make permanent, exclusive commitment, and become one flesh. In that order.
2006-07-28 03:36:58 · answer #1 · answered by songkaila 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For answers like this you need to look inside yourself and decide what fits with what you believe. I believe that sex is okay for anyone whose not too young and who really truly loves each other. But its not okay for those who are just looking to feel better for a few moments. Sex is an expression of love. What do you believe?
2006-07-28 10:41:17 · answer #2 · answered by Phaylynn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Long as it's between two concenting adults it is ok to have sex. Just use protection and be careful and make sure you're having sex for the right reasons.
2006-07-28 10:36:36 · answer #3 · answered by JenniferJeanne84fromCanada 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's not ok to have sex when you're not married. Yes, it is natural, but God didn't create it for single people, He created it just for married people. Your body is a temple and should be saved for your husband, and his body should be saved for you as well.
God Bless
2006-07-28 10:40:41 · answer #4 · answered by jcdunbar0312 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, because it is natural to have sex. Otherwise manhood would die out. And even if the catholic church thinks differently... just priests and popes can't make children....
2006-07-28 10:34:38 · answer #5 · answered by ftperm 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is not okay.fornication is a sin and God would definitely punish u for that.....if u ask me,i think AIDS is one of the greatest punishment God has put upon pple that have pre-marital sex
2006-07-28 10:53:14 · answer #6 · answered by heey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I THINK ITS OK IF YOU ARE TRUELY DEVOTED TO THIS PERSON. I HAVE A 4 MONTH OLD DAUGHTER, AND ME AND HER DADDY ARE NOT MARRIED BUT I LOVE HIM WITH ALL MY HEART. YEAH ITS WRONG IF YOU DONT LOVE THE PERSON. THEN YOURE A SLUT. THERE IS A DIFFERENCE.
2006-07-28 10:32:55 · answer #7 · answered by Tara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess it's ok as long as you both know the consequences of having sex outside marriage.
2006-07-28 10:37:49 · answer #8 · answered by garre 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes and no .... Its a choice, just remember all decisions and actions have corresponding consequence.
2006-07-28 10:36:31 · answer #9 · answered by marikit _ako 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no in gods eyes that so wrong wait till your married
2006-07-28 11:21:01 · answer #10 · answered by Alexis g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋