i can't get these thoughts out from my head, i generally feel good and sociable for a couple of days, i really have fun, then i go back to frowning and criticizing everybody so they hate me. Can't stop MAKING EVERYBODY HATE ME, i think i do it on purpose .I'm really a nice person if i can stop the thoughts in my head from makin me crazy... I've been on therapy and medication but it didn't make me feel better, i doubt it would...
2006-07-28 03:16:32 · 13 answers · asked by CoolSexyCG 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
there aren't any support groups in my area, if u feel like i do or got anythin u wanna say (that could eventually help!!) my e-mail is gregor_y2k@hotmail.com
2006-07-28 03:45:37 · update #1
You need to like yourself more. A difficult task for people who are depressed or suffer anxiety. You criticize people to make you feel better about yourself, I bet. And I imagine you are most hard on people whose faults are most like your own. Nobody is perfect. You need to be easier on yourself. Forgive yourself for your faults. You are a nice person. You said so yourself. Believe that. Also, you probably resent people because you worry so much about what they think about you. Your happiness seems to rest in their hands. They will always let you down with this type of thinking. They don't think about you and there in lies the rub. But I bet they do "think about" you if your criticize them. You may be feeding off of the negative attention. Try to stop the cycle. I always try to think of one positive thing to say about someone, even if I don't like them. (It's okay not to like everyone.) When you focus on the positive, you will have less room for the negative in your head.
2006-07-28 03:32:06 · answer #1 · answered by cranberly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
..... I do this sometimes when I feel like pissing people off. Not exactly this, but something like this.
It's not often, maybe days I'm not having a good day, I'll intentionally make people angry just so they are in the same mood I am. Wow... I hope that's not a disorder lol!
There's nothing you can do really on that buddy. Other than finding things to make you happy and looking inside yourself to see WHAT makes you unhappy, your not going to do much without Therapy. If you are going to Therapy, well... then you need to actually talk with them about what the root is of your problem. Only you know what began this and when you started criticizing everyone.
Seems like you have an anger problem and you hate yourself because of an event in your life that made you do that. Or even just your self-esteem is so low you try to better yourself by bringing others down. By making yourself hated by those around you, that relieves some of the hate you have inside for the time being.
Look deep inside and you'll know what it is and why you do what you do.
I hope you come around bud, you'll be glad you did.
2006-07-28 10:25:26 · answer #2 · answered by WantToGoHome 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't focus on how you can make others like you because you will always end up disapointed. Be the person you want to be all the time and you will have some that like you and some that don't. The important thing is that at the end of the day you know you were yourself for better or worse. Have compasion for those around as you would want them to have for you and you should be ok.
2006-07-28 10:32:28 · answer #3 · answered by BURGIN24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just stop hating people. I'm a nice person and you're a nice person. Everyone is someone's child... they just get ignorant sometimes.
Don't try to be sociable if you're not feeling like it. When you aren't, stay home and watch tv or read.
2006-07-28 10:20:18 · answer #4 · answered by Mama R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As well as medication you need to look for a group of people with similar problems. There are mind over mood groups, thought disorder groups. Talk to you doctor and see if he can recommend a suitable group. There may be things in your past or personality that need to be dealt with.
2006-07-28 10:35:16 · answer #5 · answered by Kenneth H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People disappoint you. You are very sensitive. You are a sweet person but when the people hurt you you get angry. You must first learn to love yourself and be your own best friend, and don't worry about what others think of you. Love yourself and others will love you too. Try reading this book---'Living With Joy' by Sanaya Roman.
2006-07-28 10:25:05 · answer #6 · answered by a_delphic_oracle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you do these things just so you don't have to deal with the outside world? It sounds like a social anxiety. I used to never want to be around people until i got on an antidepressent and now I feel normal again.
2006-07-28 10:20:23 · answer #7 · answered by smalltownangel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get on different meds. it can take a long time to find out which ones are right for you. everyone is different and unfortunately doctors arent that willing to work with individuals as much as they should. sounds like you have schizoprenia with some paranoia. or on the other hand, maybe its just how you are. everyone is so quick to diagnose these days and maybe we just need to accept that we are human and we are all a little f*cked up...and its OKAY to be like that ya know :)
2006-07-28 10:26:14 · answer #8 · answered by tulips♥77 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What diagnosis did they give you? May be bipolar, it takes a while to find the right medication. Be patient.
2006-07-28 10:23:02 · answer #9 · answered by t79a 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
now, who are you? like get a clue no one knows you so how can they like or dislike you. learn to laugh at life it makes it better
2006-07-28 10:20:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋