should i have sex?

Question

*well here the thing im 17 years old i never had sex before is it ok to feel scared or ashamed of my body *
(just to let you no im a size 5 i have a nice body and a nice booty
and the upper im a size 38c) should i have SEX????????

Answer 1

No. Even if you were a fat ugly girl, you still should not have sex at the age of 17.

Answer 2

Probably not. Not trying to be rude, but if you have to ask this question then you probably should not. You might not agree with me on this, but you are still young. I promise you, if you wait you will be happy you did later in life. The fact that you made it to 17 w/o having sex is a pretty big accomplishment. If you have a boyfriend, he will understand, if he really cares about you. There is a lot of stress that comes with sex, such as disease and pregnancy. Finish high school and go to college. Those should be the most important things to you right now. Hope this helps.

Answer 3

The question is why you feel you need to have sex. I mean, what is the point? You aren't telling me you met the best guy in the universe and you love each other and you want to have sex, you're telling me you have a great body and you want to have sex. But that isn't a good reason. There are so many STDs out there and so many bad men, not to mention the number of unwanted pregnancies. wait for the right man, get married and THEN have sex! You are special, treat yourself like it. wait for someone who will love you and cherish you - not treat you like you are just a pair of walking boobs.
So, no, my dear, do not have sex. you have nothing to prove to anyone. respect yourself enough to realize this.

Answer 4

You should be asking yourself the question if you are in love, or at least care deeply for your partner. Your body has nothing do with it. Having a confident self image will definitely make sex better and easier. But don't give it up just to be getting rid of your virginity. You'll regret it in the long run .

Answer 5

What does your clothing or bra size have to do with whether or not you should have sex? *shakes head*

You should have sex 1) when you are ready to have sex (want to), 2) when you meet someone you would like to have sex with, 3) when you are emotionally ready to deal with it, 4) when you can handle the issues of STDs and pregnancy, should either or both occur, 4) when you've been well educated in methods of birth control/protection against STDs and have chosen one or more that are right for you. (items not necessarily in order of importance)

Your size has nothing to do with it, as you can see. When you meet all the above criteria...have sex if you want...enjoy!

Answer 6

if you have to ask that question, you are not ready for it. having sex is not something you can take back if you decide you are not ready for it. you can have it no matter what your cup size is. are you ready to give up you, just because you think it might be the time that everybody does? you don't mention anyone in particular in your life. what you seem to be saying is,"i've got this nice body, should i share it"? no, not until you find someone you love, admire, and respect, and have given it enough time so that you know you will always love, admire, and respect this person. it's ok to be stingy. it's dumb just to give it up.

Answer 7

If you do feel these things, and you need to ask these questions on yahoo answers, then no you are not ready. You will know when you are ready.... you won't have that many doubts about it, and whomever you want to be with should not make you feel scared. If you are ready to take care of a child, and be out on your own, then you should consider taking on the responsibilty of sex... if you can't do that.. then don't have sex.

Answer 8

It depends on you and him don't go rushing into it just for the sake of it, yes its ok to be scared and ashamed of your body but if your with someone who respects you they shouldn't care.
Don't go rushing into it get it right, and when you feel like it then you can.
Remember do it when your ready and its a precious thing to loose

Answer 9

That's up to u. U are the only one that knows if u are ready to have it or not. There no little sign that come on that says Ur ready or not. If u are comfortable with Ur body and are willing to take a step forward, then go ahead.

Answer 10

If you have to ask this question you must know what you are asking is wrong.... you have come this far you can wait a little longer (marriage) there are so many diseases out there that it isn't funny....and so many girls are getting pregnant.......so just wait and be safe by practicing abstinence......God will bless you for it :).......Sin will take you further than you want to go, make you stay longer than you want to stay, and make you pay more than you are willing to pay.....I always think about that phrase when I have to question my actions :). Thank God for my pastor and his words of wisdom!