what is a christian thing..?

Question

to say to a boyfriend of 3 years, that was a christian, but no strayed. He curses, and has anger problems, and hanging around wrong influences. Hes always had a jealousy problem, if a guy just looked at me, hed snap. He calls me S*L*u*t when ive never had sex, and calls me a cheater, when im so faithful. Then i hear hes doing stuff behind my back. He always calls me the worst cheater for stupid things, like if i talk to a guy for a sec to ask a question he snaps, and calls me a cheater. What is his reason for this? Thoughts, and reasons you can think of?

What is something I could say back that is Christian like to him. I always have nothing to say, and I need something to tell him i'm not cheating, hes blaming me for his doings, and blah blah blah.

Pray for him.

I dont understand either, I tell him its over, and that I deserve a man of God...and he says I am cheating for saying that!!

Answer 1

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LEAVE HIM. You do not deserve to be called names like that, ESPECIALLY not by someone who supposedly "loves" you. Find someone who treats you as you deserve to be treated, not someone who puts you down and insults you.

It's possible he's accusing you of cheating because he's doing it himself, and assumes that you are, as well, either because "everyone cheats and it's no big deal" or to assuage his guilt.

Whatever the reason, you do not deserve to be treated like that.

Answer 2

Honestly - I cannot see where this could ever turn out to be a relationship that will last. If you are a Christian - keep studying the Bible, do God's will - find someone who will help you in these task and live life for God. Choosing the other path - that is the path to eternal destruction - is a path easy to follow - he looks to be on this path. Do not let him take you with him.

For more information on the Bible
go to http://www.johnfourteen.com
click on "Studies in the Bible"

Answer 3

the best Christian thing that you could say is : GOODBYE
he is not a Christian and the Bible says that God will not unequally yoke a believer and an unbeliever together, therefore (unless he gets saved) there is no future with this guy. you are wasting time that you could be the one that God wants you to have.
God doesn't want you to be judged and punished by an unbeliever. get out while there is time. you deserve better than this, and I think that you already know this.

Answer 4

we life not only by the religion, but also influenced by social environment & culture.. for example in my country in indonesia, we only can hav sex after marriage.. because sex also means commitments , .. well, right now, i'm on vacation in holland.. people will be laugh a loud at me if i talked like that... hmm... i'll be laugh at them also because they are all riding bicycles and i always ride a car in my country..
hehe... think about it... anyway, sex doesn't guarantee your relationship with your boyfriend will lasts forever.. infact 90 % broke up.. and call his girlfriend is a 5 L u 7, after making up with him.. i guess some boys only think about their self , they doesn;t wanna lose a bet with their friends making love with his girlfriend..
so..virginity vs money + ego...
think again girls..! for me.. i wanna marry a virgin girl.
but,that's for me.. if you are already had sex before, i think take your time, chose the best time to discuss with your soulmate.. because it does a seriuos matter for a long term when you are going to build a family together..and still have a dirty little secrets. and don't watch TV or too much movies as a perspective as our live.. you need to have your own life principles

Answer 5

the two. Lent is the era best as much as Easter, following with Christian (no longer pagan) traditions straight away from the Bible meant to characteristic reverence to Easter and to Christ's sacrifice and resurrection. some fundamentalist Protestants these days have been intentionally attempting to confuse the meaning of "faith", customarily parroted from what they are instructed by their pastors; yet all "faith" is is a collection of supernatural ideals and practices many times having to do with a deity or deities. that's all. that's the common, widely-regular definition of "faith". attempt as they might, their ideals and practices are as plenty non secular in nature as absolutely everyone else's... the attempt to ditch the term "faith" is a fad that's been occurring with fundies the final 5-10 years or so. specific, Lent is a non secular custom; greater to the element, that's a Christian non secular custom, and one that has been suggested for greater or less 2,000 years. overlook approximately paranoid whack-jobs like Chris and Susanna. They comprehend no longer something of historic past, and seek for any probability to attack different faiths--even different Christians--through fact they erroneously think of that this wins them brownie factors in heaven. i assume their concept of God is a mirrored image of their very own bigoted recommendations... yet seeing as how none of their recommendations, movements, or habit are Christian (could Jesus himself truly say/do the failings they do?), i does not supply their nonsensical drivel any benefit.

Answer 6

Well I will pray for you but honestly it is who he is hanging around with, and also if he doesnt treat you right you need to just find some one that will, some one who has a strong faith in God. God Bless you and I hope that it works out

Answer 7

You need to break up with him. The man in the relationship should be the leader, including spiritually, and it is clear is not able to lead you. You need to share with him that you are concerned that he is not living up to the Biblical standards. Ask someone in the church that he is close to (preferably an older man) to confront him on these issues. You need to seperate from him in order not to be a hinderance.

Answer 8

The bible says that we should not be unequally yoked. If he is not your husband then maybe you should consider the relationship. But I'm sure that you don't want to leave him or you would have by now. I suggest letting your light shine. Reflect the Son in your life. Don't try to defend yourself to him. Let the Holy Spirit defend you. If you want love then be love.

Answer 9

I think you need prayer as much as he does. Why would you date someone like that? The Bible very specifically tells us to guard our hearts. Do not put yourself in the way of unchristian companions. If he is not a Christian, and he very obviously is not, you need to stay away from him..

Answer 10

The best Christian thing you can do is to say good by. And walk away-never to see him again. He is obviously not who God would have you to be with. The signs are overwhelming.