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2006-07-28 03:14:20 · 10 answers · asked by sharhonda4u_007 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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Love in its true essence could hardly be defined in words... because Love surpasses the expression of words.

Nevertheless, LOVE, in a relationship, as most commonly related to is the existence of mutual affection, trust and goodwill. For an instance, love exists between relationship when you can be your true self to the other, barely 'naked' with all your vulnerabilities. Most people wear masks that we would like others to see in us, but when we experience love we are stripped-off barely with no pretensions. This explains that sometimes, as we grow deeper in relationships, we tend to be more natural in our actions. This also connotes a lot, since loving has many important components for its sustenance, such as trust, respect and time-sharing. Love is also universal and timeless. True love never dies. Sometimes, even breaking up is due to loving your partner. And this is because, what we want for our loved ones is what is better for them even entailing sacrifice and pain.

Love has many faces, not merely expressed or confirmed by hearing that seemingly magical three words “I LOVE YOU”. A tap on your back, a sweet smile, a gift of a loaf of bread, a piece of candy or a warm sweet hug, may in no way measure the amount of love but does certainly shows it.

On some higher degree, LOVE is the proof of God’s existence. As it is said, where there is LOVE there is GOD. And where is GOD there is LOVE. We don’t need to believe in God to be able to Love and yet even unknowingly, we are witnessing to God’s existence and of God's will for all mankind and the whole universe by so loving others -- thinking for the “good” of others and doing service to others.

Love is the feeling of warmth inside us, deep when we take our breath, we can feel it... We may never know exactly what it is. Some people say, it’s felt in the heart, because the heart is the very core of human life where our blood flows to sustain our lives... and yet Love is there, and we could never take it out from us. Sometimes, we may have been just so blinded with anger or material pre-occupations... Love is the ultimate cause for happiness. This means that we could only be happy with love in our hearts. And yet, to rekindle that love in us, we must take out away our anger and other pre-occupations – for the radiance of love to let glow in our hearts.

May you always prosper.

2006-07-28 04:03:30 · answer #1 · answered by AgentFox 2 · 1 0

What is love?
This mystical, mythical question goes back to ancient times—without a coherent answer. Each person’s experience of love is uniquely varied, and each person’s understanding of love is different from the next. Love varies from one period to another along the length of a human life; a person can have many loves, but each experience will be different from the next. Summing it up, or pinning it down, are both impossible.

Love is like a continually shattering mirror that always leaves behind images etched in people’s hearts; but it will itself remain a mystery forever.Love is like the sunshine; no matter how tightly you shut down your heart, the sunlight will find a way to shine into it. Love’s process is unstoppable.

Many people give themselves over to this mystery, but while love can produce the most tender and delicate feelings in anyone’s soul, it alone can open a window in the hearts of a very few.

A simple analogy might be that of spring water which satisfies an extremely thirsty soul. Imagine, in the intense heat of midsummer, a very thirsty shepherd, using both hands to scoop the running water from a roadside creek to drink with a joy that satisfies his thirst. Such a sensation is beyond compare.

Everybody has a different explanation and a different definition regarding the love they experience. The majority of people can suddenly fall in love with a stranger. If you ask them what they see in their lover, sometimes they can’t give you a clear answer. But the fact of their regard for each other is indisputable.

In brief, as a living human being with a soul, it is impossible not to fall in love in the course of a lifetime. Love is like the sunshine; no matter how tightly you shut down your heart, the sunlight will find a way to shine into it. Love’s process is unstoppable. Therefore, my advice would be: Don’t waste your precious time trying to define the meaning of love. The best definition is already in your own heart and mind.

CHEERS!!!

Rohan

India

2006-07-28 10:26:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

An excellent description of real love can be found in the Bible in 1 Corinthians 13

4Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. 8Love never fails.
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13And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love.

2006-07-28 10:22:53 · answer #3 · answered by Jones J 1 · 0 0

Love is GREAT, as long as both are totally honest with each other , respect each other and there is much communication .

2006-07-28 10:29:20 · answer #4 · answered by Froggy 3 · 0 0

love is blind I know is sound corny but its true LOVE IS NOT A MAYBE THING YOU KNOW IF YOU LOVE SOMEONE

2006-07-28 10:20:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

what's love got to do wtih it?

2006-07-28 10:22:22 · answer #6 · answered by AreYouForReal? 3 · 0 0

baby don hurt me!

2006-07-28 10:20:22 · answer #7 · answered by lolitakali 6 · 0 0

I think this question gets asked everyday.(YAWNNNNN)

2006-07-28 10:17:27 · answer #8 · answered by Tee 3 · 0 0

I have no idea anymore!

2006-07-28 10:17:33 · answer #9 · answered by Lynn D 2 · 0 0

READ IT CAREFULLY THEN YOU WILL SURELY KNOW WHAT IT IS ....
Love is a condition or phenomenon of emotional primacy, or absolute value. Love generally includes an emotion of intense attraction to either another person, a place, or thing; and may also include the aspect of caring for or finding identification with those objects, including self-love. Love can describe an intense feeling of affection, an emotion or an emotional state. In ordinary use, it usually refers to interpersonal love, an experience usually felt by a person for another person. Love is commonly considered impossible to define.

The concept of love, however, is subject to debate. Some deny the existence of love, calling it a recently invented abstraction. Others maintain that love exists but is indefinable; being a quantity which is spiritual, metaphysical, or philosophical in nature. The views that love does not exist or is indefinable may underlie the fact that approximately 13 percent of cultures have no word for love. [1] [2] The remaining 87 percent attempt to define this abstract concept and apply it to everyday life. Love is one of the most common themes in art and often times is an excuse for " bad art". Some psychologists maintain that love is the abstract action of lending one's "boundary" or "self esteem" to another
Overview

Love has several different meanings in the English language, from something that gives a little pleasure to something for which one would die. And in contrast to the definition at the top, frequently people use the verb "love" to indicate want or desire for themselves as opposed to for another. For example: "I love that lamp," does not refer to desiring wellness for the lamp, but rather to the desire for the lamp. The word also frequently indicates elevated appreciation or admiration: "I love that artist," An individual might state.

Cultural differences make any universal definition of love difficult to establish. Expressions of love may include the love for a soul or mind, the love of laws and organizations, love for a body, love for nature, love of food, love of money, love for learning, love of power, love of fame, and love for the respect of others. Different people place varying degrees of importance on the kinds of love they receive. Love is essentially an abstract concept, easier to experience than to explain. Many believe, as stated originally by Virgil that "Love conquers all", or as stated by The Beatles, "All you need is love". Bertrand Russell describes love as a condition of 'absolute value', as opposed to 'relative value'.


Types


Courtly love – a late medieval conventionalized code prescribing certain conduct and emotions for ladies and their lovers
Erotic love – desire characterized by sexual desires
Familial love – affection brokered through kinship connections, intertwined with concepts of attachment and bonding
Free love – sexual relations according to choice and unrestricted by marriage
Platonic love – a close relationship in which sexual desire is nonexistent or has been suppressed or sublimated
Puppy love – romantic affection that is not "mature" or not "true." The term reflects a bias that love between youngsters is somehow less valid.
Religious love – devotion to one's deity or theology
Romantic love – affection characterized by a mix of emotional and sexual desire
True love - love without condition, motive or attachment. Loving someone just because they are themselves, not their actions or beliefs in particular.
Unrequited love – affection and desire not reciprocated or returned

Scientific views

Throughout history, predominantly, philosophy and religion have speculated the most into the phenomenon of love. In the last century, the science of psychology has written a great deal on the subject. Recently, however, the sciences of evolutionary psychology, evolutionary biology, anthropology, neuroscience, and biology have begun to take centre stage in discussion as to the nature and function of love.

Biological models of sex tend to see it as a mammalian drive, just like hunger or thirst. Psychology sees love as more of a social and cultural phenomenon. Psychologist Robert Sternberg created his Triangular theory of love and argued that love has three different components : Intimacy, Commitment, and Passion. Intimacy is a form where two people can share secrets and various details of their personal lives. Intimacy is usually shown in friendships and romantic love affairs. Commitment on the other hand is the expectation that the relationship is going to last forever. The last and most common form of love is simply sex, or passion. Passionate love is shown in infatuation as well as romantic love. This led researchers such as Yela to further refine the model by seperating Passion into two independents components : Erotic Passion and Romantic Passion.


Cultural views

Although there exist numerous cross-cultural unified similarities as to the nature and definition of love, as in there being a thread of commitment, tenderness, and passion common to all human existence, there are differences. For example, in India, with arranged marriages commonplace, it is believed that love is not a necessary ingredient in the initial stages of marriage – it is something that can be created during the marriage; whereas in Western culture, by comparison, love is seen as a necessary prerequisite to marriage.


Religious views

Love, in the form of subjective devotion, seems to have been originally understood as the proper response to idealised objective natural forces (pagan polytheism). Later religions shifted the emphasis towards single abstractly-oriented objects like God, the law, the book, and the church (formalised monotheism).

Alongiside these two objects of subjective human love (mono and poly), there a third view which recognises a state or truth distinct from (and often antagonistic to) the idea that there is a difference between the subject and the object (pantheism). Love is reality itself, of which we, moving through time, imperfectly interprete ourselves as isolated part.



Definitional issues
Dictionaries tend to define love as deep affection or fondness.[3] In colloquial use, according to polled opinion, the most favoured definitions of love include the words:[4]

life - someone or something for which you would give your life.
care - someone or something about which you care more than yourself.
In common use, care refers to a mental or emotional state of predisposition in which one has an interest or concern for someone or something. To care for someone, may also refer to a disquieted state of mixed uncertainty, apprehension, and responsibility; or a cause for such anxiety. Caring for an object, such as a house, refers to a state of attendant maintenance; or may also refer to a state of charge or supervision, as in under a doctor’s care.
friendship - favoured interpersonal associations or relationships.
union
family - people related via common ancestry.
bond.


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2006-07-31 04:48:32 · answer #10 · answered by vishal 3 · 0 0

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