i hate my life?

Question

first of all me and my lover are all ok next minute he thinks i am snubbing him, he confuses me he said he loves me but he doesnt in fact i think he hates me really, i have no idea what to do, i cant live without him, yet i feel as tho i am making him miserable. i sent him an email saying goodbuy, this is it now. I wish i was dead.

Answer 1

try to relax, tomorrow is a new day!! everything takes time.

Answer 2

life must go on no matter what, if you dump him today they are many more days to come and better men are around you. When a man confuses you, it is a sign that he doesn't really care for you. He might have some one else and he is in stress because of this, man will never tell us if he loves someone else, all he can do is keep on hurting you so that you will walk away by yourself.

If you feel like u can't live with him, it is not true, it will be for temporary only, hard feeling will be cured after a while. Stop making yourself suffering, u deserve for better life. He is miserable because of the way he handles his life. Real love can be felt and can be seen.... think again!

jemie http://www.website.ws/powercontrol

Answer 3

You are the only one who can make YOU happy. Other people in our lives can only enhance our happiness. You say you can't live without him. Of course you can, but you may be holding on to him a little too tight and maybe he feels it.

I think you should see a counselor. Emotions usually come down to 2 things and they both have to do with fear:
1) Fear of not getting something that you want.
2) Fear of losing something that you already have.

Good luck.

Answer 4

well mate, life is full of problems. i know exactly how u feel since i ve been thru the worst breakup of my life. maybe its time u spoke to him regarding this rather than seek help else where.
tell him how he makes u feel, but dont beg him to stay...tell him what u think he shuld change , but again dont beg him. if it still doesnt work out ....move on. dont hink of ending ur life, i thought of it once too, but then i held on and now look at me. i pushed my energies in the right path, my anger and hate for life turned to happiness when i ended up successful and now i ve all iever wanted.

life is more than one person, life is this one chance given tous by some super natural power to prove our worth, its not something for us to give up so easily.

dotn be a coward...try ur best and if it doesnt workout ,cheer up and put ur energies into some hobby.

take care

Answer 5

I'm sorry honey, I know exactly how hard it can be... Just try to find other things to occupy your time, like work or start reading or working out. I found out my ex was gay a few months ago and my hobbies are the only things saving me from insanity..

Answer 6

Get out of the relationship, which seems to be central to dragging you down. Sometimes people misinterpret love for dependence. Get some counseling.

Answer 7

right you need a counselor......... j/k, a guy that does that dont care bout you most of the time they just want sex, hell my best friend tells girls that he loves them just to get in their pants.... but just send an e-mail explaing that you are leaving and that you feel that you've lost your love for him, if comes crawling think before taking back, if doesnt say anything else its because he doenst give a sh*t.

Answer 8

Wow, You really skrewed up didnt you?
Lol Im just joking, I think you shouldnt be with someone who doesnt feal the same about you as you do them

Answer 9

WELL THE WORST THING YOU CAN DO IS TELL THEM THAT YOU WISH YOU WERE DEAD.. BECAUSE IS GOING TO MAKE YOU LOOK LIKE YOUR CRAZY, PLUS IT WILL SHOW THAT YOU HAVE LOW SELF WORTH. YOUR SITUATION IS NOT EVEN SAD, IS JUST PATHETIC. IT SHOWS THAT YOU HAVE NO LIFE WITH OUT SOMEONE ELSE BEING WITH YOU.
THINK ABOUT IT ISN'T THAT PATHETIC.

Answer 10

Get to church. Go back to school next. You'll figure it out.