Ok, so heres the deal... I met this guy that I thought the world of, only to find out hes nothing but a jerk, just like all the other guys that have stepped on my heart. I know hes a jerk and I know he doesn't want anything to do with me. So why do I miss him? Why would I take him back? What is wrong with me??
2006-07-28 03:12:02 · 9 answers · asked by onehot_mama23 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You miss him because you want someone in your life. You'll always come acroos more downers than ups in the world of dating. The best that you can do is not to give up. There is someone out there for you. In the meantime try to go out more with friends to have a good time.
2006-07-28 03:17:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think maybe your a little stuck on the idea of him and not really him at all. He is just the closest and easiest one to keep putting back in the role. I just recently broke up with a jerk too. I had to be stuck in the idea of him all this time because he really was a jerk. I finally woke up and realized that if I dont leave I'm just setting myself up for a lifetime of being with a jerk.
2006-07-28 10:19:36 · answer #2 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really miss him? Or do you just miss having a companion? There are so many times girls will stay in contact or in a relationship with a jerk because they want the company. Honestly I do not think you miss him if he is such a jerk you just probably miss having someone around. Don't confuse the two!
2006-07-28 10:18:02 · answer #3 · answered by strawberries 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's wrong is that you're one hot mama. Some people enjoy. or get solace from being "hurt".- it gives them something to cry or complain about. Similar to the abused spouse that finds it hard to leave or escape a relationship. Its an attraction or need for co-dependency....
2006-07-28 10:26:55 · answer #4 · answered by ••Mott•• 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have the exact same problemo with a guy that was my best friend for 4 years then we messed around and afterwards he was a TOTAL jerk and he used me and it was just awful, i haven't seen or talked to him for about a month but I miss him SO much...well i think i miss the old him tho idk but i know how you feel
2006-07-28 10:24:01 · answer #5 · answered by Mae W. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have done the EXACT same thing before and even though i have a different bf, i still want to hang out with him and see him, but you just have to remember that hes a d*ck and you could do SO much better.
2006-07-28 10:17:41 · answer #6 · answered by i <3 batman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're just feeling sorry for yourself! the sooner you make yourself believe that he's no good, the better off you'll be .... wait for the right one - he might even be around the corner lol
2006-07-28 10:16:41 · answer #7 · answered by Jenifer O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're probably just lonely. Once you find someone else, you won't miss him as much.
2006-07-28 10:15:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its just but normal to feel that way. maybe you just need somebody to hangout with, and it happened that he was the last person you were with, so he's the one who first popped up into your mind...
2006-07-28 10:18:28 · answer #9 · answered by FaBuLoUsElYwEiRd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋