i have never even had a boyfriend. i have come close, but i got scared. what should i do??
2006-07-28 03:03:12 · 12 answers · asked by blubutterflys 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just relax and enjoy your life if waiting is what you want the"You go girl" Woohoo more girls your age should practice this policy.
2006-07-28 03:06:44 · answer #1 · answered by kristig79 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Look at it this way, if you had 10 boyfriend in the past and slept with a few of them, where will that have gotten you? I have been with my husband for 11 years and we were both with others before we married and I really regret it, not for the obvious reasons of saving myself though. Information about your past always gets shared, like how things were, how did he or she do that, blah, blah, blah. Some of it my fault some of it his fault, but then you end up comparing yourself to whoever they were with. If you were only with each other then you would never have to wonder "am I good enough". You'll be the best they ever had. Besides, there are plenty of men out there. Find out what really scares you and work on it. You have no idea the power that women really have over men.
2006-07-28 03:50:40 · answer #2 · answered by faith 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is not any longer situation with being a virgin. imagine about it this way, is an rather very sturdy element. optimistic you're lacking out the buzz of having sex, yet you save your self your acceptance and develop into impossible to resist. Take me as an social gathering, i'm 23 and nonetheless a virgin. i do not remorseful about it in any respect. the actual incontrovertible reality that i do not ought to be stricken about someone attempting to get in my pants each and each and every of the time infect me with STD's or HIV. HIV isn't a sturdy element to get from sex. I met those which have had it and now they're lifeless. Its better to dedicate to at least one individual, marriage, and also you wont situation about it. Heck both one among ya ought to have a lot interesting
2016-11-26 20:37:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not bad at all that you are 23 and a virgin, im 23 too and i just got married and i lost my virginity then, when you fall in love and finally be with THE ONE ment to be for you, you will share everything with him, no fear, with love out there you can always take things slow and easy, no rush, i actually think that your loved one will appreciate it when you are a virgin, it will surely make him happy to know that he is the first one to ever go there!
2006-07-28 03:16:15 · answer #4 · answered by Beauty Queen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being a virgin is not a bad thing. it just means you haven't found that someone you'd want to have your first experience with.
never pressure yourself to do the deed just so you can be a non-virgin. it should be something you really thought about doing and you should consider the person you're going to "give it" to. remember that there are consequences of not using your head.
don't worry about it too much. staying a virgin before marriage is actually a good and hard accomplishment these days...
2006-07-28 03:12:16 · answer #5 · answered by one_anime_lover 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you're waiting for Mr. or Ms. perfect to come courting.... It may happen, it may not. There is nothing wrong with being a virgin- if that's by choice! Many people would rather get involved with a person with little or no previous sexual experience. If you're scared.... are you scared of a relationship or scared of sexual encounters? Maybe you're having a psychological block towards intimacy..
2006-07-28 03:09:31 · answer #6 · answered by ••Mott•• 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U should be proud of urself.
Well Enjoy the life. Give to ur future hubby
2006-07-28 03:11:00 · answer #7 · answered by snow l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am also a virgin in my early twenties so dont feel bad
2006-07-28 03:10:38 · answer #8 · answered by tropicalsunset245 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its not a bad thing its just u haven't found that special somone that you ready for just wait it will come to you
2006-07-28 03:14:14 · answer #9 · answered by MR.YOUNG,FLASHY,AND FLY 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no thats a good thing. your saving yourself for marriage maybe
2006-07-28 03:07:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋