2006-07-28 03:02:59 · 27 answers · asked by "BadGirl" 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The only thing you can really do is tell him how you really feel, and next time think & look before you leap.
You need to have more than a attraction torwards someone befor you get into a relationship with them.
Maybe with time it will get easier for the both of you but, for now you just have a stalker on your hands...
2006-07-28 03:13:11 · answer #1 · answered by Reddbone*Wifey68 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that it would be hard for both of you but there is nothing you can do. Tell him that your heart is not feeling the same way as he does anymore. If he loves you he'll do anything that would make him happy/ to see you happy. Letting go is hard but if he loves you he'll learn to let go. Satying friends is an option and if we are really destined to be in the future..then destiny will find a way. Try to explain everything and don't make any interaction with him for a while [e.g. don't call him, e-mail, text, etc.]. That way it will be easier for him to realize and accept that things have changed between the 2 of you and he'll forgive you soon. If you have interaction with his friends, ask them for some help..maybe they will understand and they can talk to your ex. Well, GOOD LUCK!
2006-07-28 03:12:37 · answer #2 · answered by foxylicious 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him straight out im sorry, but i dont feel the same. I wish i did but i dont. And say that there are plenty of fish in the sea so go and catch another and move on. Say it nicely but dont let him bring you down. You need to be happy with yourself before you make other people happy. Just tell him straight out, do it. Im sure it will work. In a nice way
2006-07-28 03:05:30 · answer #3 · answered by Island Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
adult males are adverse at showing their emotions for women. I went by way of a adverse harm up 6 months back. i became cheating on, lied to, and under pressure by the female my boyfriend cheated on me with. He dealt with me like crap and that i had on no account been so harm in my life. It took time, yet ultimately he found out that the grass isn't greener on the different section. He have been given to the element the place he became finally decrease back to his previous self and we attached at an identical time as we weren't mutually. Afterwards issues have been nonetheless rocky between us. Now we are doing greater advantageous..yet i think of the main ingredient is a few issues want time. Like i suggested adult males have a adverse way of showing emotions at an identical time as ladies lay all of it out on the table. in case you do truly go away him on my own he would ok comprehend that he desires you in his life. some adult males merely pass by way of strange ranges the place they do no longer comprehend what they want, yet in time he would comprehend which you are the guy he somewhat ought to be with; and clearly he nonetheless cares approximately you because you all attached.
2016-10-01 04:32:35 · answer #4 · answered by nein 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had this happen. i broke up with my bf of 5 years. he called me every day and every night crying saying he loved me blah blah blah. his parents sent him out of the state to stay with family because they thought he was having a break down and that jerk had the nerve to have his pastor uncle send me a letter saying i needed to talk to him and my ex and find god and get my life together. i wanted to punch him. THEN he had the nerve to show up at my house and he KISSED me! i almost punched him that time. he even had the nerve to send me a happy aniversary card even tho we hadnt been together for 3 months. its been over 3 years now and he's still not completely over it. he lives with a couple of my friends (cause i'm dating a former mutual friend of ours) and we're not allowed to visit over their house because he wont let us in.
guys are stupid. if its a real problem tell his parents or call the cops and have a restraining order put on him. (i was really close to the second)
2006-07-28 03:07:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont get back with him just because you feel sorry for him. Tell him to stop contacting you, if he calls done answer the phone and dont return his e-mails. Be polite but firm, its the only way.
2006-07-28 03:05:20 · answer #6 · answered by IwishicoulddeleteYahooAnswers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell the Ex your not interested in them anymore and move on with their life.
2006-07-28 03:04:11 · answer #7 · answered by RedCloud_1998 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe you are the lady who was complaining that your were not being "kept" in the manner you had grown to be accustomed. I would suggest you stop hanging around men. You sound more like a disease than a partner.
2006-07-28 03:04:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Change the way you feel and they will most likely do the same.
2006-07-28 03:05:05 · answer #9 · answered by ••Mott•• 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you don't like him. If he won't leave you alone, and you truly don't want him around, get a restraining order.
2006-07-28 03:25:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋