me and my bf broke up after 3 yrs we have a baby together and we have been split up about 6 months now but every few weeks he wants to meet up with me its not just sex because we talk too and just last week he txt me message asking me y i havent txt him and i never say goodbye in my msgs but yet i try to talk to him about being together properly and he wont talk about it i dont know what to do
2006-07-28 03:01:33 · 7 answers · asked by ya as if i 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What you need to do is stop being his booty call. No offense intended, but he had a kid with you, he should either commit to you or let you find someone who will.
2006-07-28 03:05:33 · answer #1 · answered by Robb 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, don't kid yourself.He wants an empty peni$, and a full stomach.Just so happens,you have to talk to get it, and some guy's talk after sex, out of guilt.Kind of clears the guilty mind.Take it for what it is.Why would you have a baby with someone your not married to?Use a condom, and get on the pill.
2006-07-28 03:14:32 · answer #2 · answered by ronchoward 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he wants his cake and eat it too. I would only talk when he does come around, leave the sex on the road side a while, and if he doesn't com round as much as he did when you slid that sex n there, then you know why he don't want to talk about being together properly.Give yourself credit, you talk smarter than your thinkn. Good Luck.
2006-07-28 03:13:13 · answer #3 · answered by Froggy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think your both addressing your problems but getting together from time to time to enjoy whats good between the two of you...resolve your past issues in order to allow your relationship to head in a healthier direction, not until you do will he consider anything exclusive with you..good luck.
2006-07-28 03:09:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he paying support on the child. Ask him for support and see if his attitude changes. He does not seem to me to be an individual who likes responsibility. And you are a dreamer.
2006-07-28 03:11:49 · answer #5 · answered by quikzip7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he dont talk bout it then u dont takl bout it and drop him like a bad habit
2006-07-28 03:07:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry dear, he wants ***
2006-07-28 03:05:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋