that you no is a cheat? I thought that being a bestman or maid of honor is supposed to be something special and Honorable, what do you think?
2006-07-28 02:57:52 · 8 answers · asked by Thandie 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Standing up for someone at their wedding means you believe in their marriage and will support them to make it work. You are not obligated to be a bestman of maid of honor because you are a friend. If you do not believe in their marriage you can decline the duty of bestman or maid of honor. Good luck!
2006-07-28 04:24:38 · answer #1 · answered by Raspberry 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
The duties of the best man/maid of honor are to help the bride or groom stay focused on their wedding day and to help with little details. You should be supporting them 100%. IF you feel you can not, I suggest declining. If you are pressed for a reason, be honest. You may lose a friend, but you would be holding on to your own dignity and being a strong moral person.
2006-07-28 03:14:07 · answer #2 · answered by LEMME ANSWER THAT! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Don't do it if you are not going to put your whole heart into it and really be there for the person. It is something special and your outlook can make or break the planning stages of the wedding for this person. No matter what you think of this person and their relationship, it is their business to decide to marry and they need people in their wedding that are happy for them you may show your dislike for what the person is doing and not even realize it.
2006-07-28 03:24:22 · answer #3 · answered by weddinwarrior 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's your wedding ceremony and that's substantial to you and your destiny husband to have those close friends stand via your component in the process the ceremony, regardless of their gender. there is no reason that any you will think of something of it. i could even with the undeniable fact that no longer advise making them positioned on some thing distinctive than they could in the event that they have been status on the "classic" component. nonetheless circulate forward inclusive of your wedding ceremony hues and outfits and merely incorporate all the female even with who they're status with on the dress setting up and deliver all the adult men even with who they're status with to the tux setting up. when you're married those would be the two your pals and now could be an excellent time to start mingling for all the events which you will prefer to host later. good success inclusive of your determination and congratulations on your pending wedding ceremony!
2016-11-03 04:48:13 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your best friend is morally reprehensible, then why be friends with them at all?? You've put yourself there by playing along with it and approving of it, but now that it comes down to it, it's suddenly worth fighting against? Make the decision as to if you simply want to be there for the friend and remain friends or if you want to draw the line now.
2006-07-28 04:55:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have a problem with this too. How can you stand up with someone who is taking a vow of marriage that you think is going to break those vows. On the other hand, maybe those vows will change the person's way of behaving.
2006-07-28 03:04:31 · answer #6 · answered by shirley_corsini 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can decline the position if you feel uncomfortable. Which one can you live with the decision that you particiapted in a marriege ceremony with someone who was unfaithful or you did not participate in a ceremony that was untruthful?
2006-07-28 03:03:44 · answer #7 · answered by Monique 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on your level of comfort in the situation. If you are uncomfortable and disagree that they should get married because of it you shouldn't do it and explain that to your friend. Tell them that they are putting you in an awkward position.
2006-07-28 03:15:12 · answer #8 · answered by Coco 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋