Not saying i am going to get intimate with him just for fun being that my boyfriend is overseas.
2006-07-28 02:56:49 · 22 answers · asked by VANILLA 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think going out alone with him is not a good sign. Go with some friends, it's safer.
Alone you could give into temptation. Even if you are true to your bf, going out alone will lead others to speculate, if that got back to your bf then it could (and probably would) lead to jealousy. Think about it from his point of view. (it would make me very suspicious, if I were in his shoes)
Finally, are you sure you should be in that relationship. Long distance relationships are tough. Be true to yourself, and you might not hurt another person so much.
2006-07-28 03:05:06 · answer #1 · answered by elliott 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How would you feel if the situation was reversed? If you have a commitment with the b/f overseas, then no, you should not be going anywhere with the other guy. And if you can't figure out why then you need to wait until you are more mature and can see just how destructive this could be. For you and at least two other interested parties. And there will always be someone who looks more interesting, at least at a moments glance, but they are never worth destroying someones faith in you. Peace.
2006-07-28 03:07:05 · answer #2 · answered by -Tequila17 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump your boyfriend!!!
If you have to even CONSIDER going out with someone else then you have no feelings or no respect for your boyfriend so do yourself, and him, a favor and finish the relationship.
You can't care for him like you say if you're thinking of going out with someone else. The "not getting intimate" line doesn't wash with anyone. I think you're just trying to fool yourself girl.
Do the right thing. Don't cheat on your boyfriend.
2006-07-28 03:09:02 · answer #3 · answered by TonyB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you tell him before hand that you are going out with this guy as a friend... Then you know what... Make him a friend... But be carefull where you draw the lines... and Make sure you really do want to keep your current boyfriend, because if you don't love him... there is chance that you might stray (no matter how strong you are).... Just keep it in mind..
2006-07-28 03:00:57 · answer #4 · answered by Rob D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may not want to get intimate but I guarantee he does. I would do something with other girl friends. If you go once with this guy, it is the road to disaster. Go by this rule. Whatever it is you do, if you have no problem telling your boyfriend about it, then go for it.
2006-07-28 03:00:27 · answer #5 · answered by ABN 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you claim you care for your boyfriend a lot, then you shouldn't be considering another 'great guy' unless you are only going to go out with this other guy as friends only, and he realises that you have a boyfriend and isn't going to try and pressure you into anything.
2006-07-28 02:59:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What type of relationship do you and your boyfriend have? What's the understanding between you? If it's that you two are together and in a committed relationship, then don't go out with anyone else. It will be cheating on your boyfriend.
2006-07-28 03:00:31 · answer #7 · answered by Mary C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let me say this.... we human beings are never satisfied with what we have. i don't even have the heart to cheat people who love me a lot. So, maybe you don't really CARE that much for your bf like you said u do coz if you really care, you wouldn't even be thinking abt it. u wud reject the other guy's offer. i think u are being selfish here.
my advice? enjoy the attention given to you by this 'great guy' but make sure you stay focus on ur bf!!! all da best gal.
2006-07-28 03:03:23 · answer #8 · answered by NOTurBFF!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would call your bf overseas and tell him exactly what you are telling us, then ask if it is okay to go out with the great guy.
2006-07-28 03:00:25 · answer #9 · answered by snvffy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Same with the other guy. Go if you like, but let him know you have a boyfriend. He deserves to know, too, and you won't have the weight of lying or secrets on your shoulders.
2006-07-28 03:00:40 · answer #10 · answered by Dale E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋