iv been talking to this girl for a little while now but she has a few personal problems and she has blocked me out cos of them, and she had done it like turning off a light switch because one day she was flirting with me and then the next she didnt want any contact with me. i havent done anything wrong i didnt say anything to try and offend her or anything.
i dont know what to do as she has asked for some space but im a worried about her as she is quite sick at the moment.
2006-07-28 02:45:58 · 14 answers · asked by mattman 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh snap! You was BLOCKED yo!!!
2006-07-28 02:47:14 · answer #1 · answered by B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I Understand Where Your Coming From I Use To Have A G/F Who Was The Exact Same. At First I Thought She Was Doing It To Push Me Away Or Just To Piss Me Off So I'll Leave. But The Truth Is That They Just Cant Help It. It Comes Natural With It.Your A Caring Man To Still Be Next To Her After This.Good Luck.
2006-07-28 09:50:22 · answer #2 · answered by Ty Doyal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok... here's the deal... If she's having emotitonal issues because of a boyfriend, run away... well... if the idea to ever be with her... at least any time soon, because you will feal the wrath of that old realationship... and It will break your heart....
If she needs space... give it to her... but let her know that you want to be her freind... because in all honesty, that is all you really can be to her, is a freind... Let her heal and give a time, a long time... Then maybe in 6 months to a year, you might be able to have an actually relationship....
But if she is sick in the sence of being depressed... please keep an eye out... and be there for her as a friend... and be there if she needs medical help... becuase it is possiable...
2006-07-28 09:56:58 · answer #3 · answered by Rob D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't really say, because I don't actually know either of you, but maybe her illness has something to do with it.
I don't know how serious the illness is, but if it is life threatening she may not want to involve you right now. If not she may just need some time to deal with what she is going through.
Let her know that you think highly of her and you care and when she is ready you will be there to listen and give her the support that she needs. But back it off a little so that you don't scare her or offend her.
Good luck!!
2006-07-28 09:50:38 · answer #4 · answered by Amanda S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her the space she needs. She probably just needs to work through her problems. Maybe giver her couple days and then try talking to her again. Hope everything works out for you!
2006-07-28 09:49:39 · answer #5 · answered by Lynn D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well man I've been in that situation, and its hard but you have to do it, the best thing to do is just let her know that you are there for her , but give her, her space. She means it when she says that, nothing againts you just give it to her, she'll come to you when its time. So just hang in there man.
2006-07-28 10:11:30 · answer #6 · answered by wcenice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may have someone else on the side. You should talk to her and tell her how you feel about her and the situation. You can't have a relationship without communication.
2006-07-28 09:49:36 · answer #7 · answered by Diva319 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her the kind of space she wanted... When u'r distance away from her and she'll realize that she needs u more than anybody else, she'll be back and keep u forever...
2006-07-28 09:49:35 · answer #8 · answered by sweetslashy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talkt o her about it... dont hide your feelings but take her to a quiet dinner then discuss it with her and it she goes crazy just take her out of the resturaunt, let her calm down in the car and then tak eher home and discuss her issue more. but most of all, dont take ANYTHING i mean ANYTHING personally right now and be there for her when she needs you
2006-07-28 09:48:21 · answer #9 · answered by Jazz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be there for her when she needs you and try not to take anything personal, even if it seems like it is.
2006-07-28 09:47:58 · answer #10 · answered by Mama R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her some space
2006-07-28 09:48:13 · answer #11 · answered by raul b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋