Wherever I go for travel I always have a need to masturbate in a public place ( my room's balcony) so a woman will see me. I know this is strange, but want to know if it's wrong or just a sexual fantasy of mine. If there is a licensed therapist that may have an answer, that is fine too!
Thank you.
2006-07-28 02:43:51 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Other - Health
i think its fine, although i personally would never do it, some people might take offense to it and report you to the police, but other than that its just a sexual fantasy of yours
2006-07-28 02:48:48 · answer #1 · answered by fat_tito672 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In most places, this would be consider a form of sexual assault and you can certainly be arrested for it. In the most benevolent of societies you would still be fined for indecent exposure and possibly arrested.
We're not even going to discuss the moral issues or what could have happened to you during your childhood to cause you to feel the way you do. A therapist might be able to assist you there.
I think for the moment, you need to restrain yourself, simply because you are risking a very embarrassing arrest record.
Also... I don't think you want to harm these women, I think you are hoping to stimulate them. Some of them will feel harmed and violated. Keep that in mind. If they wanted to see you masturbate, they would ask for that. To impose it on them without their consent is abusive.
2006-07-28 02:52:39 · answer #2 · answered by thegirlwholovedbrains 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many like you do this with the unconscious intention of being caught.
Once caught in the act, and it hits the press, they go into denial - about their emotional instability, or momentary insanity or bichemical imbalance in the body.
Your inability to manage your sexual urges is just a step away from more serious sexual-related crimes - it will eventually escalate and mess up your mind and life.
Consider the consequences of being caught, charged in court, jailed, labelled a pervert by all, including family and friends.
The easy route is find a fee-for service escort with no strings attached, and act out your fantasy in private with her.
Some countries put you in jail, castrate you and throw away the keys.
2006-07-28 02:56:41 · answer #3 · answered by r 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well there is always an element of danger and excitment when 'doing private things' in public, there is nothing wrong with it, maybe a little more descretion would be a good idea and everyone has there own little fantasys......
2006-07-28 02:50:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it were normal, it wouldn't be illegal. Indecent exposure is against the law, and I think masturbating in public is included in that law.
You definitely need some therapy, but that's only my opinion. I'm sure others will disagree.
2006-07-28 02:48:16 · answer #5 · answered by elguzano1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you do it. strange. feelings? we all have urges. just don't play into it. just say.>> hey, i need a little excitement, and go find a healthier outlet. OR role play with a friend/girlfriend if that helps.
that's what a therapist would say.
2006-07-28 02:48:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is just a sexual fantasy
2006-07-28 02:46:55 · answer #7 · answered by Q T-->>*Ana*<<-- 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go n masturbate on ur Gf's face. Let her wash her face with that thick soap
2006-07-28 03:02:25 · answer #8 · answered by Dr. Joe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Masturbating while others can watch is called Exhibitionism.You need deconditioning therapy.
2006-07-28 02:49:34 · answer #9 · answered by J.SWAMY I ఇ జ స్వామి 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ewwwww that's wrong, but natural and you're allowed to do whatever you want
2006-07-28 02:47:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋