I am a very desirable woman, and guys hit on me all the time. Most of the guy friends I have know that I have a bf but still flirt and try to get in my pants anyways. But I dont let them. DUH! So I don't even see them anymore. My bf wants me to swear off men cuz they all want me and its always like that. I get along better with guys tho...Should I just listen to my bf? So far he's been right about all the guys I try to have as friends.
2006-07-28 02:16:04 · 6 answers · asked by Sarah A 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you like hanging out with guys you should. You should always follow your own heart. Try to explain to your bf that you really love him and that he's the only guy for you. If he doesn't understand then maybe he's not the right guy for you.
2006-07-28 02:23:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My opinion? Find another boyfriend. Don't give up who you are simply because your boyfriend wants you to change. If he has an issue with you and guy friends, he has an issue with trusting you to behave yourself! And as long as you're not acting on these other offers made by other men, what harm is being done really? When you turn your back on friends because you are making someone else happy, you become a completely different person yourself, without your individuality or even sometimes your own identity. Talk to your boyfriend about what his issues are, and why he doesn't trust you. Is it because of you, or does he have some other problems with trust and other people from his past. Good luck!
2006-07-28 09:22:47 · answer #2 · answered by loving father 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess ur bf does not actually mean to say u cannot have guy friends.the reason he's saying so is cos of d fact dat d guy friends u have wanna sleep with u.if u call dem ur friends y do dey wanna sleep with u?even if u have a bf or not,dat shudnt be their concern.u dont sleep with all ur friends,do u?i think ur hanging out with the wrong set of guy friends.d only guy friends u shud have r those that have no sexual intention 4 u.
2006-07-28 09:42:16 · answer #3 · answered by heey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tough question...i think you should be aloud to have friends you want....if you feel like u'r guy friends are not true friends than it should be you to make the break with them. I myself do have a girl that I have been friends with since the 6th grade. So yes it is possible to be just friends with the oppisite sex. Just need to find the right one.....
2006-07-28 09:23:38 · answer #4 · answered by shift_redline 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is right about the guys, but, he has not right to tell you who you can and can not talk to. You may need to move on if he is so protective now.
2006-07-28 09:40:04 · answer #5 · answered by icemountian8 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, he's not your parents. but maybe he's right. just say that you're old enough to know what's good for you
2006-07-28 09:21:41 · answer #6 · answered by livelaughlove<3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋