both love eachother truely. they met eachother in singapore. there is 7 yrs difference in their ages. guy is doing PHD and girl doing her bachelors. both are compatiable in every aspect
2006-07-28 02:10:59 · 31 answers · asked by TANU 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Girl is doing her bachlor? how old she is?
What do you mean by compatible ?Compatibility is too big a word. You are 20 , he is 27 , it seems ok. You will be 27 , he 34 things will start to change. Outlook changes with age and people tend to follow their parents as they grow older.
In such cases as different nationality , there are many other things to consider.
Are you going to convert? How much you know about the family of the guy? if You refuse to convert , how willing he is to support you?
What about his family's stand on a Hindu Daughter in law if she is not converted?
Have you taken your own families feeling under consideration? After all they have trusted you and are paying for that study and you living. 7 years difference at the 0f 19-20 is not that short.
Give more attention to your studies and decide about compatibility after post graduation.
If you are asking for opinions on YA , you should know most of your answerers may be even 12 to 9 year old. Only kids will answer with "race does not matter" as they even do not know that India and Pakistan are not exactly two different races.
If you really sincere, dicuss it with your parents or some dependable, sincere , mature person you know.
2006-07-30 19:56:30 · answer #1 · answered by rian30 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In college I have seen how Muslims and Pakistanis and Hindu get along in one club..also for an end of the year night of performance on stage. If the two individuals have alot of connectedness, despite their cultures, they will find a way to make it happen.. the distance can only bring two together and make them long after the other and if their hearts are made for each other..then God and prayer.. no matter what background or family pressures that revert their tendencies toward love can change that.. Rem. in a relationship.. the man and the woman are the primary sources of life giving love.. and without love who would you be..Have faith.. Keep your hope.. pray and the love will find its way..love expressed is love lived..
2006-07-28 02:24:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Congratulations! I dont think it is a sin or strange at all! Anyway it is quite common in this world. i know quite a number of couples with mixed marriages. So be happy, but just for information, the lady has to convert to Islam prior to marriage and be a good muslimah. Nikah is valid only when both couples are Muslims, otherwise is void. GODS WILLING, everything will be fine. All the best!
2006-07-28 04:02:09 · answer #3 · answered by CuriosCAT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If both of you are close to your family, I say stop and think. And you know why I say this. Much heartache can come from this. If you two are willing to be alone together then pursue it. Only you know how your families will react. Then there is the reaction from society in general. Does your boyfriend expect you to convert to Islam if you get serious? Are you willing to do that? I wish you good luck.
2006-07-28 02:16:33 · answer #4 · answered by a_delphic_oracle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There might be very serious repercussions if your families do not agree on the match. I knew a catholi girl who married a protestant and her father never spoke to her again! If you are in love then you might be strong enought to make it, but remember without family support things can be very difficult. You could be in for alot of heart ache. Be careful.
2006-07-28 02:15:31 · answer #5 · answered by IwishicoulddeleteYahooAnswers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it. Worked with a CT tech who was hindu. She was married to a muslim. This was many years ago in Calif. They did just fine.
2006-07-28 02:14:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the most important thing between them is their LOVE.. but however most couples I know have trouble later on when they have children to how to bring them up u know.. different culture & different religion may cause a divorce...
2006-07-28 02:14:48 · answer #7 · answered by Lemi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's very very nice. i think u should marry as u love each other very much. nothing can stop love and lovers . just do it. but i think there will be problems from both of ur families. try to convince them and then marry. if dont' accept leave them and u both live happily. they will come to u later.
2006-07-28 02:19:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's an abomination!!!!
Just kidding. Race means nothing. Love means everything.
2006-07-28 02:13:03 · answer #9 · answered by a sock 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it dear............. just be prepared or may be ve enough understanding between both of u so as to accept n respect each other;s cultural differences, there may be some difference in day to day routine also, just u both talk among ur selves........n GO........... for it... it wud be lovely......
2006-07-28 02:16:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋