I Was in a relationship we wound up breaking up, I told him he was never in love with me, and he said there is no difference. What do men really think, is there a difference to you?
2006-07-28 02:10:23 · 6 answers · asked by Thandie 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Loving someone is when you care about their well being. Being in love with someone is when you have a need for their essence, when you feel that this person is worth your energy, your life and the very core of you. You have such feelings for this person that you will sacrifice everything to ensure their security. It's not all about the fuzzy, warm feelings. Being in love with someone brings integrity and devotion into the picture. We all make mistakes, but when it comes to being in love with someone, you give them your heart, mind and soul. It's poured from your very hand into theirs. There is a want and a need to give and receive endless passion and intimacy as well. It's not all about sex either. Intimacy and passion come in different forms.
2006-07-28 02:16:13 · answer #1 · answered by L Jeezy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No they don't know the difference. Well I do, but I know you're talking about guys in general.
You'll have to forgive your ignorant ex-boyfriend. Most guys seriously just don't get it. I should also mention that while it might not seem like it from your perspective, there are just as many women out there with the same problem.
2006-07-28 02:13:12 · answer #2 · answered by Axel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only real difference I see is the level of infatuation or obsession. People can put divinity in it all they want, the stars being aligned and all that noise, but the fact is it's just infatuation.
2006-07-28 02:17:36 · answer #3 · answered by Nothing 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to some of us there is a difference. like me for instance. i know the difference between the two.
2006-07-28 02:15:07 · answer #4 · answered by party_2_hearty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THERE IS A BIG DIFFERENCE BETWEEN LOVING SOMEONE AND BEING IN LOVE WITH SOMEONE. UNFORTUNATLY, MEN DON'T GET IT!!
2006-07-28 02:13:41 · answer #5 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop spitting hairs, you are giving me a headache
2006-07-28 02:14:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋