you are in love with your best friend.ever since you caught this feeling you stopped talking to her.not knowing what to do.
you tell all of your friends about this they advice you to say it to her but you havent got the right kind of courage needed for this task.but you are willing to say it.she avoids you.that is in a way like what to say as you avoid her.you have to tell her but mind it that she is known for her temper and tell me how would you express it to her?
2006-07-28 01:57:04 · 9 answers · asked by deepak rajaa 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just tell her, that's all u can do. it is what it is!!!!!
2006-07-28 02:00:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know why they make cards? Say it with a Hallmark. Stroll up and down those aisles until you find the perfect card. And in that card tell her you'd like to discuss it over dinner.
If she is a friend, she shouldn't get mad, but be flattered. However, this does not mean she shares your desires, but you have nothing to lose by putting your cards on the table.
When you have this dinner, this is when you should tell her that you have been trying to avoid her so that you don't ruin the friendship, but that you don't want her to think you don't care. Just let her know that if she is not interested in you in the same way, you need some chill time to see if you can continue being friends on the same level knowing how badly you want her.
2006-07-28 09:19:25 · answer #2 · answered by Dancer3d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is probably avoiding you, because you were avoiding her. Walk up to her and tell her how you feel. The worst that can happen is she will say that she doesnt feel that way about you. Then yall can move on to being friends again. Honesty is the best policy.
2006-07-28 09:01:33 · answer #3 · answered by ~*~Jeni~*~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, when I hear the word temper, I am inclined to run!
However maybe she feels the same way you do and cannot express it to you.
Just walk up to her and casually say, '"let's have a coke" or whatever.
She can only say "No", "not now", "later", or O.K.
Remeber that NO does not always mean no. So say "maybe another time".
If she accepts your invintation then work into your feelings slowly
during a longer period.
2006-07-28 09:08:11 · answer #4 · answered by dmiles-mcc@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say, take a self-defence course before you approach her. Be yourself but if she decides to challenge you on it be prepared to stick up for yourself. If you do win her over just know that a bad -tempered women aren't always easy to live with.
2006-07-28 09:04:55 · answer #5 · answered by vzhnri 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit her down and tell her you have feelings for her. That you would like to take your friendship to another level.....the worst thing she can say is no.
2006-07-28 09:01:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Invite her to go to coffee. While you are there talking, ask her nonchalantly why you two have never dated.
2006-07-28 09:00:29 · answer #7 · answered by waterfowlwidowmaker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pull her aside,and tell her. if she don't want it,she will tell you!but don't use stupid p/u lines in doing so,just be honest!!
2006-07-28 09:00:24 · answer #8 · answered by Jenifer D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Walk up to her and say "I love you"
2006-07-28 09:00:21 · answer #9 · answered by Meriah C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋