What you think ?
2006-07-28 01:45:32 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think it is fine if the feelings are mutual...most people over look the fact that their best friend is their soul mate. Most people get blinded by false love and don't ever get to see what is in front of them. i think if you see it and you feel you shouldgo for it. I have been there and it was the best thing that ever happened to me. and even if something does go wrong more than likely you will still stay in touch. me and mine did. and truly i think it will work back out one day...all TRUE love does... if you feel this person is more then just a close friend and you think these feelings maybe mutual .... jump please... take a shot...take a risk and love. good luck to you hun.
2006-07-28 01:51:54 · answer #1 · answered by amz1984 2 · 10⤊ 2⤋
I think it's very dangerous. The risk is really big because I'm sure you have wonderful friendship and trust between each other..and know that you can rely on the other for everything. That's really worthwhile! And never undervalue it ;) But on the other hand, love is the best thing that can happen in someone's life. And to be inlove with someone, your love to be shared...it's the greatest thing ever. And a romantic relationship between two best friends (male and female in your case) can be very strong and last for a very, very long time. But it depends on both you and your loved one. So, if you are sure in your feelings, the risk isn't big at all and the try is worth! It depends only on YOU whether you'll have the courage to risk a beautiful friendship for an even more beautiful romantic relationship :)))
2006-07-28 03:10:15 · answer #2 · answered by ChillyღAngel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you have to ask a question like this, it's not really a question of possibility. You've obviously grown attached to this best friend of yours, and so you're better off finding out now if they feel the same.
If you think about this logically, making friends with people is easy, but falling in love with someone is rare. So you're not risking a whole lot by finding out for yourself, and if they say no, you'll find that it's only as big of a deal as you make it yourself.
However, if you're confusing this love with simple infatuation, then I would NOT take the risk. Just be sure of yourself on this first.
2006-07-28 01:48:14 · answer #3 · answered by Axel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to be in love with my best friend... Then I found out that what he felt for me was just platonic... Although we are really close, closer than my ex boyfriends. I'd come to realize that some friendships are just like that... just friendships... We can never force the other to fall in love with you. Its a risk... but thats what life is...Taking risks. U would feel it if ur friend is really into u. U would know. So if ur really sure, its worth the try. Its a good foundation for a strong relationship.
2006-07-28 02:01:55 · answer #4 · answered by joe_logs_a_co 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love can happen between any two people, it doesnt take in concideration if they are friends or not. It is a strong emotion that can overwhelm you with many feelings. I personally have fallen for a best friend, you cant help it. In my situation we both had feelings for one another and when we broke up the relationship, things were alittle wierd for awhile but eventually things got back to being the way they were, actually it gained alot by it happening. You learn more about them and about certain situations in general. I found it to be a great experience, but some disagree. I guess it all depends on the person/people involved and how they feel about the situation.
2006-07-28 01:53:34 · answer #5 · answered by lacia2159 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it's possible. I also think it is the best kind. You are best friends. You already know so much about each other. You already respect one another. I think that if it is LOVE and not LUST, you would be crazy not to go for it. With any relationship, you have the chance of it not working out but life isn't worth living if you don't take some chances. What better thing is there then to be in love with your best friend. We would all be better off if our lovers or spouses are our best friend.
2006-07-28 01:49:41 · answer #6 · answered by Nikki R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on your friend and your situation. I fell in love with one of my closest friends and he knew but he didn't love me but he was really sweet about it and would talk with me for hours on end about it. I think that its a good thing. And now that I'm over him our relationship is stronger than ever! And now it seems like we are going out but we're not... I know this may make no sense to you and I'm probably just babbling right now but in the end it all depends on your friend. Some friends will let it ruin a relationship and some it will make it stronger. It just depends on how close you are and if it really would bother him if you two broke up. I hope this helps and good luck.
God bless.
2006-07-28 01:49:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh it's possible. But I'm not sure it's worth it. Maybe with a friend, but not best friend. I've fallen in love with my best friend. We dated for 6 months and then she ended it. Things have never been the same.
2006-07-28 01:49:06 · answer #8 · answered by RaeMae 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your best friend wants to give it a try, then it's definitely worth risking. Good luck!
2006-07-28 01:47:46 · answer #9 · answered by danielle s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out if your friend shares that feeling. Make your move carefully, show genuine concern, go out, be a bit romantic,show you care. Its worth it. Finding a right person is the most difficult thing & you probably have done that.
2006-07-28 01:50:41 · answer #10 · answered by Shaan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋