i know of a christian man who used a christian girl just for sex, kept there relationship secret, ignored her in church, only came around when he wanted a bit and then ended it without explanation. And 6 months later he came back expecting her to take him back with open arms. Would have have changed after being humiliated after the ministers of the church found out about what he got up to or would he be the same person he was 6 months ago.
2006-07-28 01:44:51 · 15 answers · asked by monaardnas 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
NO. I always have people tell me I need to go to church to meet the right man. But I have tried that & I think they are worse because they are just as sexually-obsessed as anyone else, they just claim not to be. I can't stand hypocrites!
2006-07-28 02:44:47 · answer #1 · answered by Selkie 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First off if people found out he wouldn't change. He would probably go to another church and learn to be more careful about getting caught. This man is NOT! a christian. A true christian with the love of Jesus in their heart would never ever do this . Were all human and make mistakes. We all sin daily , however I do feel a true christian man would treat women well. There are non christian men that treat women well also. Someone that pretends to be good and then uses it to hurt people; that's a hypocrite in it's truest form. I think it is easier for christian men to treat all people well including women. A man that doesn't live close to God is more likely to hurt women . Especially single men. Without God's guidance they think with the wrong head and get into trouble and hurt people.
2006-07-28 08:58:21 · answer #2 · answered by chitchenitza 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's definitely not a christian. He's one of those that talk the talk but not walk the walk, Gods way is only positive ways and there ain't no positive in what he's doing.Sounds like Satan's doing to me I don't think there would be any change if he came bk to her looking for same thing that humiliated him to begin with. Tell her to run this time around and stay far away from him.I would say definitely YES to your question of is there a diff. in Christian men and non Christian, A real Christian man knows how to treat a woman. Where most of the non Christian are Satan's doing. Be careful in your choosing. Are you sure the girl was Christian , same goes for woman as do men. God Bless Froggy
2006-07-28 09:30:40 · answer #3 · answered by Froggy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a Christian Woman! Per the word of God (The Bible), men are supposed to treat women with respect and love. Since our country was founded on moral and religious beliefs, this is a practice among men who aren't Christian.
This man that treated the other woman that way was not being very respectful. Like another person who responded to your message, it had nothing to do with his religion.
2006-07-28 09:02:11 · answer #4 · answered by Cierra Janece 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well just because he says he is a christian and goes to church does not make him a christian. With behavior like that I'd have to guess he is not walking with the Lord.
2006-07-28 08:52:25 · answer #5 · answered by lady_in_ms31 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Their faith has nothing to do with their behaviors, strictly speaking. A man can claim to be a Christian but lives a Godless life, while a non-Christian man can be really decent when not believeing in God. I think it's decency that marks the differences.
2006-07-28 08:50:40 · answer #6 · answered by danielle s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A person like that is obviously not taking his religion seriously, and no amount of "humiliation" by church elders is going to make a difference.
I'm not religious myself, but there are good Christians and bad Christians, just as there are good and bad non-Christians.
People are individuals. You can't judge them based on whatever group(s) they belong to, voluntarily or involuntarily.
2006-07-28 08:49:45 · answer #7 · answered by smoovegeek 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That doesn't sound like a true Christian man to me..just because he goes to church and says he's a christian. I park my car in the garage everyday..that doesn't make me a car.
2006-07-28 08:49:47 · answer #8 · answered by justwonderingwhatever 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Non religious men have always treated me better. Christianity has a lot of male superiority crap in it, and some guys really get off on that.
2006-07-28 08:50:35 · answer #9 · answered by Catspaw 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All men regardless of their denomination need to treat women with respect. The same goes for women. Unfortunately there are too many men/women out there who prey upon the weak and take advantage of them.
2006-07-28 08:49:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋