people seem to care more about sex then Love
before you say you dont care about sex ladies read this, lets say your husband had a accident to wear he would never be able to have sex again. I betno i know you would eventully cheat on him or divorce him or break up with him
2006-07-28 01:40:50 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know your anwsers r bullshits until it happens to u
2006-07-28 01:43:46 · update #1
It's because some relations won't work out if the sex isn't good, it's a fact
2006-07-28 01:44:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really. Yes, there are some women who would do those things but there are probably more who wouldn't. There are some women who take their vows seriously.
As for why sex is a bigger issue then love, I believe that many people don't really believe in love. They understand the human urges to have sex and they go with that. They don't give themselves time to feel anything real about someone but they can start having sex with someone just because they think that person is good-looking. They don't bother to find out if they are a good person.
2006-07-28 08:46:47 · answer #2 · answered by Nikki R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you're wrong. I'm not married but if I were and my wife had an accident where she would never be able to make love again, I would try to work it out rather than cheating or leaving her.
Sex is a fundemental part of relationships and of being human. Sex, romance, children, are part of what being married is all about. But marriage is deeper than that. When you make the commitment it is for life -- you know, for better or for worse. You make your choice and you stay with them, whatever life brings. So if my wife had an accident and could never have sex again I would stay with her. I hope she would understand and not insist that I never enjoy sex again myself. But if she didn't I would work something out with her. I don't want to be crude, but there are a lot of erotic things to do that don't involve direct intercourse. If she lost all interest though, I doubt she would mind that I found it somewhere else.
2006-07-28 08:46:42 · answer #3 · answered by Monso Orda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its the society we live in today. Everyones put sex up on a petistol and its really stupid. Sex was derived from love, its a way to connect and become one with the person you love, not just to score so you're not horny any more! But thats the way people look at it these days... and there are some people who even keep a score board! Its sick but its the truth. Sex should be something that you look forward to and you should do it out of love not just to get some. And to be honest if my husband had an accident I'd still stay with him and I wouldn't cheat on him. Thats retarded. but its the way our society has brought us up.
2006-07-28 08:45:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is my reply to the deleted question...good luck...
It sounds like you are worried about making a right decision... will you have success or failure.?
Since white represents success, and the man in white shot at you, this represents an injustice. Hoever, the man in black (difficulties, failure) was with him, so both choices are wrong...
Do not make either choice, or you will be hurt. You may think these are your only choices, but there are other options you do not know exist yet. Keep looking....
Seek help from outside sources (blue)....it says in the proverbs that safety is in many counselors.... seek out good advice, and do not jump into any decision until you feel comfortable, and have an assurance that this is the right way to go.
2006-07-29 10:45:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My best friend has been with her husband, post automobile accident, without sex, for 17 years now. They had 3 years of marriage with... 17 years and counting without. No thoughts of cheating... no thoughts of divorce. Between them they care for their disabled daughter who was born with a genetic syndrome (she's now 19) who was on chemotherapy when the accident occurred... my best friend's mother who has Alzheimer's... they cared for my friend's father until his death two years ago... they also care for the husband's father who is becoming increasingly disabled himself.
At what point do you stop loving family? Once you marry your mate, he is your family... your next of kin.... your partner for life. Is it when they can no longer care for you? My friend and her husband show more love and care for each other and each other's relatives than any other couple I've ever met. They removed sex from the map because it just happened to them... but it certainly didn't stop the love.
I think it all depends on what your relationship/marriage was based on to begin with. If it was based on sex, then without the sex, it will fail. If it was based on true, deep, multifaceted love that this person is your life partner, then sex or not... it will continue. It will be different... not better... not worse... just different, but still foreverlove.
2006-07-28 08:51:31 · answer #6 · answered by thegirlwholovedbrains 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is love, plain and simple. It is very rare to be in love no matter what people say, they think lust is true love and it is not. Sex, well there is a feeling with sex that you cannot get from anything else (I am also taking about self pleasing), that is why it is such a big deal. To me, emotional cheating is worse than actual cheating. Sex is like a sport, but if emotions get involved that means your man doesn't really love you, see where I am going with this.....
2006-07-28 08:51:05 · answer #7 · answered by Christie M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am in love with my boyfriend and cherish our sex life as ONE beautiful thing about our relationship. If he suffered an accident that rendered him impotent, there would still be other ways for us to satisfy ourselves. And I would NEVER cheat on him. I would also not leave him for THAT reason.
2006-07-28 08:43:36 · answer #8 · answered by kja63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no that is just wrong! I would divorce or leave before I cheat! I'd never ever cheat! but I agree Love is dissapearing in this world
2006-07-28 08:43:49 · answer #9 · answered by $D*Da*Spoild*1$ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because bad sex can keep me from loving you.
I have to say in that situation I probably would. But if he can move his mouth, YES!! That's great! Eat up.
Seriously, I don't know what I would do because I'm not in that situation. I hate when people say what they would do if it were them. You don't know what you would do, so shut the hell up.
2006-07-28 08:44:29 · answer #10 · answered by lala<3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋