okay, i'm twenty fricken years old and i am afraid to perform (be on top) when i'm with a guy. i mean i've had sex several times before but i was never really on top. it was always the guys and when time came for me to be on top, sex would already be over and with. that's how things were like with me and my ex-boyfriend(s) otherwise, i'd stay abstinent for long periods of time. so anywho, there's this new guy and were almost to the point of getting intimite. the thing is, i'm always trying to avoid staying over at his place or vice versa because i'm afraid i won't know how to work it when i'm on top. this guy, i really like him and he's not like the other guys. he's actually willing to please his girls and he can last. i'm afraid he'll leave if i don't do a good job. so if anybody, i mean anybody just please give me some real honest tips? you could give me anything that would help me. thanks!
2006-07-28 01:36:58 · 19 answers · asked by girl g 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sorry i just dont understand... please summarize for the convenience of those trying to answer the question
2006-07-28 01:40:23 · answer #1 · answered by rekha c 3 · 4⤊ 32⤋
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Welcome to the wonderful world of English horse sports... a world that at least for guys is full of stereotypes and unfair assumptions. The reason you're getting teased, WM, is because of the prevailing stereotype and myth which says that any male who rides English style and wears breeches and boots is automatically assumed to be GAY or BISEXUAL. There's no truth to this myth and there never has been, but it persists anyway. IGNORE IT. The reality is that ALL of the horse sports in the Olympics ( which are all English style) were invented by MEN, because they all came from the MILITARY. Up until 1950 or so, when the horse cavalry was finally disbanded, the Olympic horse sports were reserved exclusively for men, and most teams were made up of military officers, some of which were very high ranking. That started to change in 1952, when Lana Wright-Turner became the first American woman to ride in an Olympic 3 Day Event. She opened the door for all the women who would follow- but it would take decades before women would achieve the kind of dominance in these sports that they now enjoy. Today, the Olympic horse sports are the only ones in the games in which men and women compete equally with and against one another, and coed teams are a common sight. This tenet of the equestrian world is also true outside the games- sports like polo, driving, endurance riding and reining are all coed. Vaulting is currently the only FEI recognized horse sport that has seperate divsions for men and women. It's true that while women tend to dominate horse sports, there are an equal number of men involved in them too- they just aren't as visible most of the time.
2016-04-01 00:02:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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how do you ride a guy??? i want to be the one who takes over!?
okay, i'm twenty fricken years old and i am afraid to perform (be on top) when i'm with a guy. i mean i've had sex several times before but i was never really on top. it was always the guys and when time came for me to be on top, sex would already be over and with. that's how things...
2015-08-02 03:49:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just straddle him and put it in you and do what comes naturally. If it feels good to you it is going to feel good to him. One suggestion though. Don't bend it at wierd angles. That can be kinda painful. Just a steady up and down or a little grinding. Or you could sit still and let him do the pumping. It's all good girl! I'm sure you'll be great.
2006-07-28 01:42:05 · answer #4 · answered by woodybmi 3 · 14⤊ 0⤋
Lick and suck his dick . then get on top of him and grind and bouce up and down. do the splits on that dick. then when riding him go fast. then kiss him as you go. move your body up to his face put ur pusssy on his face and ride his face to while he is bitting licking and slurping that good pussy juice. girl i know he will do that because i know u have good wet pussy just enjoy the ride and let him do a little work to
2013-10-01 06:15:44 · answer #5 · answered by Airreyanna 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Girl Rides Boy
2016-06-20 16:15:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, common! Relax and enjoy your life and be happy you found someone who really like you and whom you really like! Everything will be fine, don't be so concerned about something which is normal and natural... And, btw, why you have to be on the top, there are so many others positions, i used not to like being on top, so i wasn't, but now, after practicing i like that position... Relax!
2006-07-28 02:03:05 · answer #7 · answered by lonellyhunter 1 · 2⤊ 2⤋
my ex just got on top putit in her and sat down and thrusted her groin forwaard and back and repeat or you could just bounce up and down eather way
2014-03-12 12:01:31 · answer #8 · answered by galenn dale smoker 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well my gurl just gets on an rides she says it likes riding a hourse
you could pratice by just getting on ur bed and riding it and riding so u could get in the position of riding staight
2006-07-28 01:40:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 8⤊ 2⤋
Just climb on, not so tough guys like it.
2006-07-28 01:39:26 · answer #10 · answered by Jim C 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you seem like a young woman that truly wants to excel in the art of love and sex.
Do not be afraid to verbally let your lover know what you want and what you enjoy. The biggest problem most people have with sex is that they don't communicate with their partner. If you do not verbalize your desire and preferences you will never experience sex to it's fullest.
I assume you enjoy oral, both giving and receiving. If so, the next time you are peroforming oral on your partner have hin lay down on his back. Kneel between his legs and take him in your mouth to get him excited and hard. Be careful not to do such a good job that he cums while you are sucking him.
When he is really hard, excited and you are wet and ready, simply move yourself up, straddle him and takeing his cock in your hand slip it inside you.
Trust yourself, the rest will come naturally. Lean forward , have him caress your breasts and just let yourself go. He will pump naturally and will penetrate you completely.
Enjoy the ride and the orgasm.
Let me know how it goes.
liatnip@yahoo.com
2006-07-28 01:47:39 · answer #11 · answered by john a 1 · 41⤊ 1⤋