How do you choice to go out with a guy is it by his appearance or by his inner-self?
2006-07-28 01:23:07 · 15 answers · asked by Grim_Sim 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It depends on the age. Younger girls tend to be more superficial . I have never cared about what people look like. I always dated guys that were sweet. Some were handsome and some to others might have appeared ugly. Beauty is only skin deep but ugly is to the bone. I've met people that I thought were attractive, but the more I got to know them the uglier they became. Vise versa. I've met people that were plain and homely at first but the more I got to know them the more attractive they became. Most women realize this when they grow up. Some women never grow up and are shallow their whole lives ( ex. Paris Hilton).A smart women will choose personality over looks anyday.
2006-07-28 01:33:57 · answer #1 · answered by chitchenitza 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Inner-self ofcourse.
2006-07-28 01:42:52 · answer #2 · answered by taurus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Appearance catches my attention, but his inner self dictates whether I would go out with him or not.
2006-07-28 01:27:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I go for inner self :)
A person who challenges me to think, he makes me laugh, very sweet, and overall a great person!
<3
2006-07-28 01:32:36 · answer #4 · answered by Luna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ithink both are very vital but if is a partner for a life time i think i will go for the innerself since the appearance i can get used to it after one year of marriage then what next.
2006-07-28 01:36:15 · answer #5 · answered by pretoria_fish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i usually go by inner self but sometimes you also have to pay attention to appearance...but i'll usually give them a chance either way... if everything goes good then great! if it does well atleast i gave it a try
2006-07-28 01:32:39 · answer #6 · answered by prmami4eva_17 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both. But in the end its his inner-self that really gets me. I liked this guy, and all my friends thought he was so ugly but I was in love with him... and lets be realistic he was no Brad Pitt. But I still loved him.. I still love him but differently. Hes one of my closest friends. It all depends if a girls shallow or not I guess. I hope this helps you out. Good luck.
God bless.
2006-07-28 01:32:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A bit of both... I mean I like a guy to be average to above average looks (in my opinion... remember beauty is in the eye of the beholder).. but the personality matters heaps and often gives them a nice aura which improves the way they look..
So in total what attracts me:
*35% looks
*30% Intelligence
*35% personality.
2006-07-28 01:29:54 · answer #8 · answered by pola_pink_ocd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
apprearance above a threshold first....
subsequent meetings based on inner-self...
difficult to see the inner-self at first glance?
2006-07-28 01:27:41 · answer #9 · answered by rekha c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There has to be some attraction.
But the personality needs to match the face.
Because if he is cute but doesn't know how
to hold a conversation, then what's the use
going out with him.
2006-07-28 01:27:26 · answer #10 · answered by Curious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋