still check everyday to see if I am online. Than I tell him I have a little trouble with my boyfriend because of this he stop going online. Did he just play or what he is 14 or 15 what's up?
2006-07-28 00:53:13 · 8 answers · asked by simplythebest 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am 26 and I am engaged
2006-07-28 01:09:21 · update #1
He likes you, he's immature and he doesn't know how to deal with girls yet.
2006-07-28 00:55:26 · answer #1 · answered by JR 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say tell him. You can't always expect someone to know what you're thinking. Be calm and explain to him that you have romantic feelings for him. If he says he's not interested in that way, don't ask him why or ask if he thinks he'll ever change his mind or you will lose all the points you got for being strong enough to tell him. It's okay to cry (you can't help it), but try to be composed (BTW, clearing your throat helps stop tears). Anyway, once he's given his answer -- NOT before or it will sound like you are making him an ultimatum -- tell him this is very difficult for you and wish the two of you could just be friends. Unfortunately, these feelings aren't going away and you need to end the friendship. Give him a hug and leave having been a strong, honest person. If he doesn't like you back, the best you can get is for him to realize you are an incredible person for telling him these things, and being mature enough to react calmly and follow through with what is best for you. After this, DO NOT CALL HIM! And do not expect him to call you. Just realize he is probably thinking of you, but for the sake of keeping that message strong, you can only reach him once you no longer care about having him in your life (in which case it's probably best to just stay out of touch anyway). Side note: If he made out with someone in front of you, regardless of your relationship, he probably isn't as great of a guy as you think. That's just tacky.
2016-03-27 03:14:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in the same position as you.Im not sure if you like him or not, you didnt say anything about your relationship with him.If you like him and dont want to be with your bf, then make a decision.Choose one person. If you cheat on ur bf, its only going to cause insecurities in ur new relationship with this guy.Plus its not fair to ur bf.BUT,if you only want to be friends with him, then carry on speaking to him, but dont ever mention your bf to him again.I think it upsets him, becoz it reminds him that he can never have you. Talk about everything else but that and make it clear what you want. Friend or lover?
2006-07-28 01:03:49 · answer #3 · answered by Jade22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is a 14yr old who does a similar thing to me, he says he loves me and wants to be with me (bearing in mind he has never met me) and he calls me a slut and threatens to kill himself now because i turned him down and told him i was happily engaged? attention seeking i think
2006-07-28 00:58:36 · answer #4 · answered by _yeah_ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess you should not worry about what is he upto,just keep him away when it comes to any kinda relationship....you have made clear to him that you already have a b/f and so you shud not be bothered about his whereabouts,i guess hes just trying to fool around and take a chance to see how strong are you towards your b/f.......so just keep him away!!
2006-07-28 00:58:20 · answer #5 · answered by country_girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have a boyfriend, why are you worrying about this guy. He's immature.
2006-07-28 00:56:30 · answer #6 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ignore him if you aren't interested...
2006-07-28 00:56:00 · answer #7 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mb ur b/f found him
2006-07-28 00:56:16 · answer #8 · answered by poony!!! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋