Ladies!!! Is there such thing as being too nice of a guy???

Question

Ok i had a girl tell my friends that she doesnt know bout me because i seem like too nice of a guy... Whats that all about???

Answer 1

Good question! I had the same thing! Can't wait to read the answers...

Answer 2

It seems to me that girls prefer a guy who ain't "too nice" for a number of reasons. First, a guy who isn't too nice naturally projects the idea that he has self-confidence, and THAT'S something girls like. Second, they all are quite sure that they can tame the guy a bit, while still retaining some of the best traits they see in their personality. Third, not too nice people usually may be better perceived as natural leaders, and girls are attracted to that too. And last, but not least, they may think that the guy is better on the wild thing too, which, in the end could be one reason alone for them to choose the "baddies". Enough?

Answer 3

i'm not a lady.....but yes, there is such a thing. basically, if she is using you for whatever, i think you are being too nice. i've seen friends taken down a road of misery being too nice to a girl. dishing out money, giving them a place to live for free, getting used for....physical stuff. i think it should be 50/50 with girls and guys. it's always reassuring to receive something back for the effort you put into a woman.

Answer 4

Woman don't want nice guys basically. How many woman have you seen giving props to the nice guys you never hear that, and you probably never will. I recomend that you start treating woman with disregard to their opinions, and what they do I'll bet ya they will start wondering about you. Go ahead and ignore those girls who you are usually nice to, as a matter of fact, go get a girl to go on a date with you (anyone as long as is girl) and parade her around the girls who think your too nice and you will see they will start trying to get your attention. while you parade the pay no attention to the girl or girls who think your nice.
see what happens. Oh girls will probably remember you more if you don't treat them too nicely. What you should do is write off those girls who think that your too nice, from now on don't do a damn thing for them no matter how much they ask. OH and since their are your friends try making them do things for you, and don't thank them if they do.

Answer 5

In reality there is no such thing as being too nice.
The fact is that most girls encounter guys who
treat women with no respect, and when they find
someone who is the opposite it makes them
wonder if they are real.
It's all about the girl trusting who u r.
So let her know u more. Then she will know
that nice guys do exist and u r one of them.
Then u will be greatly appreciated.

Answer 6

Yes, we don't like too nice guys...not rude, but not extremely nice...its hard to explain. Just don't seem like u would do anything..at least not at the beginning of the relationship.

Answer 7

If u love the person alot u tend to be too nice but unfortunatly, in most cases the reverse is true the other person is basically not into you so the results are HEARTACHS AND BREAKS.

Answer 8

I've had three girls break up with me because I was 'too nice a guy'. You cannot win.

Answer 9

a guy that is too nice does everything to make girl he likes happy and what he anticipates might make her happy without regard for himself... it is okay to be nice- just don't go too out of your way or put yourself out... it looks desperate, it won't impress her...

Answer 10

We are naturally attracted to the "bad boys." We like to change people, and we see them as a challenge.