I am dating a bored but loving guy for a year, recently our relationship turn sour because of another active guy comes into the pictures. Honestly, I am more happy with the active one but feeling guilty with the bored one. What shall I do?
2006-07-28 00:26:16 · 14 answers · asked by CH 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it depends on what is your own definition of boring and active.....anyway its important to know that any relationship based on pity is heading for the rocks.if you are no longer in love with this guy then break up nicely and remain friends rather than cheat on him and make him your enemy since you have an active guy now.i bet you someone else will see this your boring guy as VERY ACTIVE.
2006-07-28 00:49:58 · answer #1 · answered by babygal 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
In relationship, always put yourself first because you have to be happy, in future you may have to share your life with. Don't force yourself into a relationship out of pity or others reason. Pains and sorrows will come later. Thus, don't feel guilty, it's part and parcel of life. Go on with the active guy where you feel happy. All the best, good luck!
2006-07-28 08:33:07 · answer #2 · answered by James Louis 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a compassionate person . . . you do not want to break your current bf's heart. However, you are slowly breaking it by not being 100% happy with him, he isn't your type. By not giving him 100% you rob him of the things that will make him 100% happy . . . you're going to be daydreaming about this other active guy (or similar guys like him), you're going to become resentful.
Let the bored guy down slowly. Good luck.
2006-07-28 07:32:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is better if you be faithfull to both of your guys. It is your life so be with the one you most prefer, and for the other tell him the truth and put an end to that relationship. You can be friends with him of course! know it is hard, but it is for the better or later on he may say you cheated on him and worser stuff could happen. Do what u wish but don't wait long because at the end you'll end up hurting both...
2006-07-28 07:37:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hav been in this situation b4, ur guy is not boring ur just used to him. truth is that after a while, this so called active guy will become boring to u. my advice , stick to ur man cos not a lot of guys are loving and u'll need that for ur relationship to stay long.
2006-07-28 07:34:09 · answer #5 · answered by moment 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One morning a boy got up and was leaving the house with a hand full of chicken wire. His father said, 'Son, where are you going?' The son replied, 'I'm going to catch me some chickens.' The father said, 'Son, you can't catch chickens with chicken wire.'
But the son insisted that he knew what he was doing. Later on that day, the son came home with two chickens in his hand. The father thought, 'I guess he knows what he's doing.' The next morning, the son got up and was leaving the house with some duck tape. The father said, 'Son, where are you going?' The son
replied, 'I'm going to catch some ducks.' The father yelled, 'You can't catch ducks with duck tape!' The son insisted that he knew that he was doing. Later on that day the son came home with two ducks under each arm.
The father thought, 'Shoot, I guess he does know what he's doing!!' The next morning the son got up and was leaving the house with a hand full of pussywillows. The father said, 'Hold up, son, let me put on my shoes!'
2006-07-28 07:35:18 · answer #6 · answered by montanawarm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you want to get bored for the rest of ur life?
I don't think so.
A relationship must be funny and active!!
Otherwise, how can you feel really happy & complete??
2006-07-28 07:31:47 · answer #7 · answered by Lady Luck 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
eh.if it goes on.you are not going to be happy and the its unfair for the guy if you are actually half heartly treating him.so just break.but break the news slowly to him.explain o him that this way is better.
2006-07-28 07:30:02 · answer #8 · answered by destinyofangels 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
woman want attention active..
2006-07-28 07:30:24 · answer #9 · answered by ruffjustices 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
follow heart at all cost it would never lead you in the wrong direction
2006-07-28 07:30:58 · answer #10 · answered by skits 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋