Im in love with a guy who is 3 years younger than me. He does not belong to my religion also. We both r in love with each other. N he has also promised me that he will convince my parents.But my father is very strict n i dont think he will agree 2 our relation. I love both my parents n my boy friend equally. Now im in a dilama 2 choose any one. What should i do...??????
I love him so much n i dont want 2 loose hi.I love my Parents also. N i cant see them bending their heads coz of me.
2006-07-28 00:21:22 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
If he really loves you, he will try talking with your parents, even if it gets nowhere, you'll father will know he is a brave man.
How old are you, and why are you still living at home?
2006-07-28 00:24:54 · answer #1 · answered by bye 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a very hard question, age should not matter I married someone that is almost 4 yrs younger than me. As for the religion alot of couples have different religions as long as its not putting pressure on each other leave it be. As for your family they are everything try sitting down and talking to them and telling them how you feel if you are a adult they will have to understand that you make your own choices. And if you really don't want to do that then you must search your soul and see if this is what your want and talk to the man you love and talk to him about if you a get married what religion will they children be raised etc....that is all stuff you need to find out. You can always try to convert your religion as well. I am not telling you to do any of this I am just giving thoughts for you to think of.Good Luck
2006-07-28 00:29:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
But you haven't even talked to your parents about your friend yet! Give them a chance to meet him. If and when you are ready for proposal and marriage, it will be time for a new discussion. If you have a wonderful guy that treats you well and respects you and your parents, that's a wonderful place to start. Religions can get tricky, but the issue really isn't an issue until children come along. Hang in there. Be happy. Keep lines of communication open with your parents.
2006-07-28 00:26:00 · answer #3 · answered by viclyn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love exists even in the most difficult situations! This shouldn't affect your love for each other! If u can prove to both your parents that you are strong and can stand the test of time, then your relationship is worth the effort. Prove to them that u can still have a decent marriage even if your from different beliefs...
My friend married his husband who is 7yrs younger than her, different race and religion... they fought for their love and is now happily married with two kids! All it takes is a little prayer that parents would accept and of course a little faith that eventually everything will turn out well in the end. Be strong.
2006-07-28 00:48:39 · answer #4 · answered by joe_logs_a_co 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. 3 years is nothing, age is not important.
2. Religion is a little more difficult, may be your guy can convert?
3. The issue with your parents really depends on your age. If you are young (a minor) it is hard to avoid them having their say about your life. If you are an adult, it's your life. Parental approval is always the more favorable situation but it comes down to:
A) Do you want to be with a man in your religion to please your parents who you do not love or enjoy? OR
B) Be with the man you love and enjoy life?
2006-07-28 00:39:38 · answer #5 · answered by 4 Eyes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you must be a young un' to still be living at home. Age usually makes no difference around your late 20's on, until then... you have so much growing up to do, it is a fact that females mature faster then males, and at a young age, you should not be considering such a "problem", or creating one. If you are serious, and i do mean SERIOUS (considering ALL factors), go out with him, have fun... let him and yourself mature a bit more and you will have your own answer in the future.
2006-07-28 00:48:49 · answer #6 · answered by john's brat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Parents usualy love their kids no matter what. There are exceptions. This all depends on how old you are. If you are emotionally, financially independent and have your own place, oh well. Do your thing. But if you still live with daddy and mommy, and you are a minor, then you need to go by their rules. Also, read Romeo and Juliette.
2006-07-28 00:27:44 · answer #7 · answered by Jack P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've to choose one. Try to think about your self. Who is more important to you? I respect love and parents. First try to know if he loves you like you do. You're going to sacrifice a lot for him. This is very hard to choose one option between bf and parents. Tell your parents about that. I hope that you'll choose the right decision.
2006-07-28 00:32:05 · answer #8 · answered by Mr. Robi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
rYour problem isn't you question (3 years is nothing) - it's your added comments regarding your family and religion. You don't give your age but if you live on your own then I'd say it's your business and have fun.
2006-07-28 00:26:52 · answer #9 · answered by Bullwinkle Moose 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its your parents to whom you should support rahter than supporting your bf.... yeah love is also important in life but your parents knows abt your more than he knows you and your parents can even bend their head for your happiness but its upto to you to whom you should support and also he is 3yrs younger to you right now you may think that you are in love with him but it may be your infactuation too. just wait try to understand that guy gove some more time to your relationship and later on atleast once you can express your feelings to your parents abt that guy if you really love that guy. later on the whole decision is on you.....
2006-07-28 00:29:34 · answer #10 · answered by deepak g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋