Suicide Saturday Night?

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Answer 1

That was sad...sigh

Answer 2

why do you say it's best for all involved, who else is involved. what if you put down the bottle and all your self pity and try to go out and meet someone. not someone else with problems like yours at AA, but someone outside of that circle of losers. you can't expect to find a girlfriend or even a friend that even cares a little in such a short time. it takes time and effort to make friends. i've always thought the best way to meet someone new would be to join a club of some sort, people say join a church because it is cost free. you may not agree with their beliefs, but it only takes a smile or a greeting to engage in a conversation with someone. if you are in that circle (whatever that may be) they will look at you as someone who is like minded. who knows maybe they are there to find a new friend also. the best thing would be to volunteer your time somewhere like a hospital or women's shelter, that would give you time away from thinking about everything you want to kill yourself for and who knows you might be able to help someone in return, wouldn't that be the balls. if all the drunken bums(present company excluded) and drug addicts gave all the stuff up for volunteerism how much better a place this world would be.
if i were looking for a new man, seriously, i would take up fishing, it's not all that expensive to get started. you go to any pond or river and there's someone else fishing. "having any luck" is the best conversation starter, they love telling stories. that's just an off the wall example. look under clubs in your phone book or check your community calendar. get off your butt and off your bottle, stop loathing in self pity and take the first steps to start a new life rather than ending this one. volunteer to do something, anything. how about you change your ultimatum. i'll give you one, if you can't think of one little thing that you can do to help another human being for even a minute by saturday night than go ahead who needs you anyway. sorry but you need a wake up call. email me on monday. see ya... ...or not.

Answer 3

That IS sad--I am also in AA and NA. However, I really connected with everyone I met there, and through working that program was able to open myself up enough to become a friend. It is extremely lonely, though, when people don't quite get what it's like trying to live sober. I have been praying for him ever since I read this-- Hey to the person who called recovering addicts and alcoholics losers--try reading the literature or attending a meeting some time. people can change and turn their lives around. They just learn how to deal with "losers" like you-- sober!

Answer 4

no don't do it. it's a perminent solution to a tempory problem. i've been there. hospitalized, in a coma on 3 occasions. and i've learned no matter how bad the situation was when i attempted the suicide, no matter how hopeless i felt it was, it always got better, i've always been glad i didn't die, because i was happy again and wouldv'e missed something awsome. i still get very close sometimes, but now i say 2 weeks and i rethink the situation then.

Answer 5

Don't you dare--suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem. Nothing and no one are worth doing away with yourself for. You need to talk to someone you can trust about your problems. If you don't feel like you can talk to anyone you know, find a counselor. He or she can help in ways you would not believe. You have lots of things to live for, and you have a lot of good experiences still to happen to you.

Answer 6

Are you planning on doing it too?

I really don't think I have any more choices. For what ever reason, no one in AA wants me there, I haven't a single friend and my family has abandoned me.

On monday an answering machine message was left for me that my grandmother died the previous week and was buried. No on in my family cared enough to even tell me.

My situation is completely hopeless. I'm giving myself until Saturday for god to put someone in my life, even if it's only to sit next to me for a few ours.

Otherwise, I want to end this pain on my ex-girlfriends sober anniversary and hang myself on saturday.

Answer 7

Unfortunately, people like that will back themselves up into a corner, making-up every excuse in the book as to why suicide is the only way. I've dealt with too many people like that in my life.

I wish him the best of luck in his life and I hope that he doesn't kill himself, but unfortunately nothing anyone does or says will change his mind.

Answer 8

hellow, my dear,what is your problem? the email senter that i am, awounderfull propriter of life. you are a fool. if you did any wrong in your family you go and die. and one thing, i got your message befor 49 second ago. if you committed to suicide
tomorrow, you are the big fool.
just this time iwant to know about what happend to you? Give answer now

Answer 9

dont do it, God has a purpose for every life and some times life sucks I agree but dont spend eternity in hell because you cant hack this short time here! fight back get mad and cry JESUS SAVE ME!!!!!

Answer 10

that wasnt nice replying something so sad for your own need of info's

Answer 11

Do you plan on doing that.