Would you rather feel wanted or would you rather feel needed by someone?

Answer 1

I think wanted is a more positive place to be.. Needed has too many issues attached to it, of course we as humans want to be needed, but in what way, or what situation!
If we have to feel needed there must be an underlining issue. I think it depends on the situation. Wanted, I hope would mean the person is able to be responsible and stand on their own two feet. Needed, seems to say the person is much more dependent, insecure, easier to be needed, to look at someone else's problems, help solve them, rather than deal with and work on own self.
I still have to say it depends on the circumstances!

Answer 2

i rather feel needed by some1. helping others is a good thing... needing sth is better then wanting i thnk.

Answer 3

Needed, last time I was wanted I was sent to jail .

Answer 4

wanted. i dont want to feel needed, because if something happened between us i dont want to be like the only thing they need and then feel guilty if they do something stupid.

Answer 5

wanted. needed is to desperate. I don´t like depending on people. And i don´t like people depending on me. I want to do whatever I like, and people needing me, are in my way

Answer 6

Wanted for sex and needed for money.

Answer 7

i think wanted it sounds more appropriate, i need you sounds like a task

Answer 8

Wanted.

Needing someone is not love, it's codependency.

Answer 9

your answer to this question may also answer your question; Do you love somebody because you need her/him or do you need her.him because you love her/him

Answer 10

neither...