my mom trained me to use right hand but i am originally left handed. I find i have trouble in communicating myself and expressing. but i am very good in my studies . i think am creative..but i just lack of something... friends...
please help
2006-07-27 23:57:57 · 19 answers · asked by beckham2021 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
I'm answering again to this question but I won't write the same things as the other time.
I believe that our biggest flaws are the ones that we have accepted as a fact.
For example when you see someone who says that "I've accepted the fact that I'm fat and I'm happy with myself" what he really says is "I'm going to be fat for the rest of my life".
I suppose that you are young, so never accept that you are not good in communicating because then you'll never be.
If you are with some company and you are thinking "I've got nothing to say, I wish I could be better in communicating" and somebody else is thinking "I'm so charismatic, wait till they hear what happened to my today", who do you think will be more communicative?
I believe that communicating is much more useful than anything else in bringing you happiness, money, girls or anything more that you may want. So start practicing at it and do not blame your hand for it. Even if it affects, which is not proved, it doesn't determine your skills in communication.
There are too many books about communication if you want to get better at it. I'm not suggesting one because any will do, most of the times the same basic meanings are repeated in all the books. Check out the ones written by sales people because are more helpfull and much more easy to read.
2006-07-29 07:40:22 · answer #1 · answered by Divra 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Whether you are Right or left handed is also a way that you think the part of the brain that you use. If you are taught to be right when you should have been left, doesn't change the side of the brain that you are using ...but you might be a sloppy writer. I think they should let leftys be themselves. I think that Left handed people are more creative... but you shoulkd do some research on it look it up on the web "what are the qualities of a Left handed person"...a question like that or something.
2006-07-28 00:06:36 · answer #2 · answered by heyds56 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi. i'm a leftie too. i exchange into forced to attempt to do issues 'suitable handed' and it canhave incredibly undesirable effects. once you're born and for the preliminary years of your existence, neither part of your strategies is dominant. despite if, this is the conventional technique in human strategies functionality that with the aid of approximately 6 - 7 years of age, we 'lateralise' (One hemisphere of the strategies will become dominant). in maximum circumstances, the left hemisphere will become dominant, this is the place the language comprehension, language production and logical techniques are concentrated. The left hemisphere additionally controls your suitable hand physique limbs. If on the severe point of lateralisation, a baby is forced to do issues the alternative thank you to which the strategies needs, then it could have many damaging effects. In my case, I grew to alter right into a 'go lateral' - this suggests that incredibly, neither part of the strategies is definitely a hundred% dominant. such as you, I do a little issues left handed and a few issues suitable handed. The funniest element is in using a knife and fork; sometimes the two palms want the fork! I then have undesirable worry determining what to do! there is not any longer something incorrect with you, you in all risk have many skills, which your pals do no longer. you are able to utilise extra of your 'suitable strategies' which will nicely be a great income in some circumstances. fee your uiques skills and develop them. Take care. Michael
2016-10-08 10:12:54 · answer #3 · answered by schugmann 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a lefty and I have never heard of someone training their child to use their other hand. Your brain is wired a certain way and if which ever hand one has the natural tendency to use is the one that one should use. I don't think you having trouble with friends has anything to do with it though.
But just use your left hand and tell your mom to get over herself.
2006-07-28 02:38:57 · answer #4 · answered by Mike and Gina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here are the facts straight up. Right-handed is correct and left-handed is wrong. Why do you think the majority of the population is right-handed? It has nothing to do with the way a person's brain is configured or any of that other bs.
2006-07-28 00:01:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It didn't really work on me, though now I can do quite a lot with both hands. Other than that, there was no real harm done (that I know of). I just think it can't be all that good for a child, considering that it isn't the child's natural tendency.
2006-07-28 00:01:34 · answer #6 · answered by DizzyG 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Use your God-given left hand (and your Mom can use hers as she chooses). This isn't 19. century. Today there's a common knowledge that lefthandedness is perfectly normal. So be lefthanded, use your creativity and be open and friendly with people. Most of the time they deserve it.
Be blessed.
2006-07-28 01:21:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think there is a problem. Your brain is programmed to work a certain way. So if it is wired for the left , the left works best. As for friends it might be lack of confidence that you have.
2006-07-27 23:59:59 · answer #8 · answered by Gone fishin' 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The biggst thing is speech I believe. And writing is not as neat. Thank god we live in a day and age where they don't make you use the right hand if your a leftie
2006-07-28 00:08:17 · answer #9 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hardly think this has anything to do with it
my brother wass also orignially left handed and was trained to be right handed and he's doing fine
2006-07-28 00:00:08 · answer #10 · answered by la_fille_en_blue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋