2006-07-27 23:28:33 · 12 answers · asked by babygal 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
boyfriend's mother are supposed not to like you..... She wants the very, very best for her boy, and never seems to think any girls are good enough. That is a myth, right - but I think there is something to it. Just a little bit.
Act normal - be yourself. Be nice and polite to her - she'll come around. If she doesn't - that's her problem. Really not yours.
2006-07-27 23:33:24 · answer #1 · answered by Tones 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to be nice to her like buy things for her, talk to her. After trying still no use - ask your boyfriend will he ever let his mother affect his relationship with you. It's an impt question.
If yes - you've to consider if the mother will affect your relationship in the long run, esp if your boyfriend is a very filial son. What / how will he protect you when his mother tries to give you problems? If no - you are the lucky one!
2006-07-28 06:41:49 · answer #2 · answered by Maggie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried talking to her to find out what her problem is with you so you can try and resolve it?
If thats not gong to happen and your boyfriend is close with his mother then prepare yourself for major problems in the future it could just be a case of her being over protective and no one will ever be good enough for her little boy. Good luck and I hope you can work things out with her.
2006-07-28 06:33:46 · answer #3 · answered by Sarah Piggy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should try and find out what she likes in a girl and start acting on it. It will be hard, at first, but try try again as a saying goes. For e.g.: if his mother likes a girl that cooks, then make her a surprise and cook your special meal for her. Let her taste it and if she'll enjoy it, maybe she'll like you more. Do small things, because they have great meanings. Hoping to hear from you again. :)
2006-07-28 06:35:10 · answer #4 · answered by mickurahul 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing you can do. Once they pass judgement and make up their minds on how they feel about you then it's very hard to change. They have to want to change their opinion.
What I suggest you do to improve the situation is look at a few things:
1. how you dress
2. how you talk
3. if you obey the family rules
4. if you're mature
5. if you have some depth and goals
6. make something from the heart for her:
find out her favorite colors, flowers, designs, whatever, then get creative and do something sweet for her that could melt her heart.
2006-07-28 06:33:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
break up with him..
just think after 10 or 15 years..
his mother still doesn't like you...
horrible...
2006-07-28 06:43:12 · answer #6 · answered by acap 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Deal with it and hope she never becomes your mother in law.
2006-07-28 06:39:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hate will become love finally!
trys to be nice to her, buys her things such as lip stick,fruit or bring her homemade pie that you made by your ownself when you go to see her son.
No one will resist kindness but gotta do regularly.
2006-07-28 06:49:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Live your life like she doesn't exists.
2006-07-28 06:36:42 · answer #9 · answered by loveorlust06 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just i too don't like her
2006-07-28 06:31:18 · answer #10 · answered by rvp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋