Me and my bf have a thing that its ok to look at other girls or other guys. My friends think theres something wrong with that. but i dont. i think its only human nature. as long as you look and dont touch i think its ok. i'll even point out a pretty girl. we just laugh at each other when we see one of us looking.
2006-07-27 23:23:01 · 8 answers · asked by emc251978 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Lol you sound like me and my boyfriend ground rules are look but don't touch,at the end of the day I'm the one he comes home with it doesn't bother me at all. glad we aren't the only ones who have a laugh about the whole thing either!
2006-07-27 23:30:21 · answer #1 · answered by Sarah Piggy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do the same exact thing w/my guy!!! I think by letting him look, it takes some of the thrill away from having that other person. And he is quite devoted to me. We'll be walking somewhere...and I'll see a nice looking guy and I'll make a comment and he'll just laugh. Sometimes he grabs my hand or snakes his arm around my waist as a way of telling me that I'm his. Its so sweet!!
2006-07-28 06:27:07 · answer #2 · answered by mlove1307 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I sure do. Nothing wrong with looking. I don't actively search for pretty girls though. But I can appreciate one when I see one.
2006-07-28 06:40:29 · answer #3 · answered by chihuahuadog 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont tink theres anything wrong with dat.what matters is how u look,is lustfully or you are just admiring the person with no syringes attached.besides you cant blindfold yourself just bocos u dont want to look.if your bf doesnt have anything against it then why bother.only his opinion should matter to you,
2006-07-28 06:43:19 · answer #4 · answered by babygal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh yes, its normal to look at other people. but if you see somebody you appreciate, whether it's his physical appearance or his moves, that's when you stare. right? so with your boyfriend beside you, just stare at him once... dont do it twice coz it might give your boyfriend a wrong perception of your action.
2006-07-28 06:31:32 · answer #5 · answered by issa2169 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a very healthy way of handling the situation.
2006-07-28 06:39:19 · answer #6 · answered by loveorlust06 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's fine, me and me ex-bf did it (we didn't break up for that reason though), i mean, its petty hard to not see other ppl, and when u see a hot one, u just can't help it!
2006-07-28 06:27:32 · answer #7 · answered by ezzaphill 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it shows that you have respect and admire for others.
2006-07-28 06:35:04 · answer #8 · answered by crashonme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋