Do guys like girls with little to no experience?? I have strict parents and they will not let me date or have a boyfriend until I am 18 years old. I turn 18 in four months. It seems that everyone my age has been having sex and experimenting in other ways for years now!! I'm not really interested in any guys at my school because they are all too immature to even bother with. I know that people who don't put out on first dates exist. What about college guys? Do you have to be experienced? Is it necessary? I mean I've had superficial relationships that were easy to hide from my parents. But I hardly think that counts. It just feels like I have to catch up with all my peers. And I don't want to just sleep with some random guy. So can guys my age or a little older appreciate a girl who isn't easy?
2006-07-27 23:22:10 · 15 answers · asked by mlove1307 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm not a mutant. I'm tall for a girl (6ft) but I look decent and I'm a generally good person. But I'm not too much of a party girl either... Bleh. I'm such a loser!!!!
Please, no rude answers. I know I'm lame. I don't need to hear it.
2006-07-27 23:23:36 · update #1
Some of you have really sweet answers. Thanks!!
2006-07-29 02:37:08 · update #2
I don't think most guys really mind... in fact, the right guy will be honored that you chose him. But that said, don't be in a hurry to have sex just because you've been pent up all these years or everyone else is doing it.
Remember that you're always going to remember your first time, and you want it to be a cherished memory, not one you'd rather forget. Also remember that you're (almost) 18, and you have no experience with a real love relationship. Your choices are going to be not so good for a few years, most likely, while you learn to handle yourself and guys.
Hold out for as long as you can. Don't let a guy pressure you into having sex, ever. Anyone who does that is definitely not worth it. But you probably knew all this.
In short, don't worry too much about being "inexperienced." Most guys will not be hung up on that, and you'll do fine, in your own time.
2006-07-28 00:00:41 · answer #1 · answered by smoovegeek 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
honey, seriously, there are guys in college who pride themselves on being virgins! and I'm not easy either. I think my first boyfriend wanted to get into my pants the first evening I spent with him (at prom), and I didn't even bother saying anything, because I knew it wasn't gonna happen. Good thing too, because although he's a nice guy, he's a real CREEP! But he would totally have understood if I had told him (he was a senior, I was a freshman at the time, so that's saying something). For me to give myself to a guy, I have to be in love with him, aaaaand that hasn't happened yet by a long shot LOL so don't worry about it. Some guys are jerks, but most will understand.
2006-07-27 23:28:08 · answer #2 · answered by High On Life 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Realistically, it shouldn't matter. Unless you really are easy, you should be waiting to have sex with the right guy. Not just someone to have sex with.
When you're a little more mature and have had some experiences then you can start to decide if having sex for the sake of sex is worht it. Its not as easy as most people think.
2006-07-28 03:46:43 · answer #3 · answered by andyjudge1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everybody is different, but I tihnk that is awesome and you should be proud. There is nothing wrong with that, you don't have to be like everybody else take your time and wait for a special person. Me personaly the less guys a female has been with the better. Not always but sometimes it lets you know if you have a better chance of a committed relationship with that person.
2006-07-27 23:47:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if you ask me, I would prefer a girl who's a virgin. I don't know, I guess it's that fact that she's different ,you know what I'm saying? I mean, everyone these days is having sex before marriage and it's COMPLETELY different to wait....and anyway, I wouldn't want to date some who's promiscuous. hope this helps and God bless you.
2006-07-28 23:50:36 · answer #5 · answered by 3 nails 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like girls with little experience , caz after that the compatibility between us will be over rate..... it could be over 100 % .. think about it this way and believe me you will find it marvelous way to have the best girl for your life. she will never think about losing you or leaving.
But if the man is looking for desires, of course she should be over experienced, did u get me ???!!!!
2006-08-01 01:21:35 · answer #6 · answered by semsem T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well yesssssssssssssssssssss,
dont even think about sex if you are thinking about it coz you are cowin down to peer pressure.
if your friends are having drugs dosent mean you also have to try.
i know this is a society, but remember a society comprises of indivuals.
2006-07-30 23:37:16 · answer #7 · answered by is_cupid_stupid 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wait till u are mature enough to go in any relationship.
2006-07-27 23:28:38 · answer #8 · answered by mikejolyemsegun2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure why not guys like to take control aprently and insecure guys would feel more secure
2006-07-27 23:26:56 · answer #9 · answered by bob 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes sir
2006-07-28 07:42:23 · answer #10 · answered by traveller 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋