why is it that i cant get over the girl ? i want to move on but even though she rejected me i still feel something strong for her and it isnt just lust. i feel as though i am in love with her but i just want her to be happy and i cant stop thinking about her.
does anyone else have this problem? and also if u listen to a song what song makes you think of them??? lol sorry guys
2006-07-27 23:10:27 · 15 answers · asked by poony!!! 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i know exactly what u mean ... but i had a different situation, when i broke up with my ex-b/f i couldn't stop thinking about him, i cried every night coz i missed him, but all the tears i cried didn't get him back to me ...
listen, this is life ... u should MOVE ON AND BE STRONG! coz if u don't move on, life will and u'll be stuck in ur sorrow for a long time! and later u'll find it even harder to forget her ...
i'm sure ur young and nice so there r plenty of amazing girls out there ... u just haven't met the one yet!
so don't do that to urself ... BE STRONG AND MOVE ON.
and IF U WANT U CAN FORGET HER NOW! IF SHE DOESN'T WANT U ... i'm sorry but TO HELL WITH HER!
that's all i can do ... good luck!
(don't listen to any songs that may remind u of her, listen to "Unbreakable" by "Bon Jovi" - that will help)
2006-07-27 23:23:14 · answer #1 · answered by >DraMa Qu33N< 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You cannot move on because you still hope she will accept you. And maybe because you meet her all the time. Someone new will do the trick.
When I think about my bf I think about the song More than I can say:
Oh oh yeah yeah
I love you more than I can say.
I'll love you twice as much tomorrow
Love you more than I can say.
Oh oh yeah yeah
I miss ev'ry single day.
Why must my life be filled with sorrow
Love you more than I can say.
Don't you know I need you so
Oh
tell me please
I gotta know.
Do you mean to make me cry
Am I just another guy?
2006-07-28 06:23:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
At the age of 22, I am still stuck on almost every girl that I had a thing for since 6th grade. Some people can move on, others can't. I am the latter. But every addiction is in your head. With enough will power, you can do damn near anything.
2006-07-28 06:16:13 · answer #3 · answered by rexall_addict 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there no need to say sorry and im sure everybody who has been rejected was in the same boat. you know u can make her happy and treat her right but she wont give u a chance.so u need to accept that she not intrested in u but its hard.still in time it willfade u just need to get out there and have fun.u fell for the wrong girl and now its time to just move on.maybe later on she will c that ur the one she needs but till then u cant wait and hope u need to go out there and have fun.good luck
2006-07-28 06:15:56 · answer #4 · answered by SLICK 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to have this problem. You can do one of two things.
1) Keep trying to convince her you're right for her
2) Just try to find someone better
I did #1 for a while, but realized she just wasn't right for her. And, through accepting this, I made myself more open to other girls, and found someone better.
The best song for that situation is Green Day's "Paper Lanterns". When I was going through this, I listened to that song literally hundreds of times.
2006-07-28 06:16:05 · answer #5 · answered by ame_punk1791 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's the problem with girls. When u feel 4 them they turn u down. We are in the same shoe. That's why i need a friend, just friend to keep me busy.
2006-07-28 06:24:48 · answer #6 · answered by mikejolyemsegun2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do you might not nesscarily love her as much as care for her in a big brother sense. song that reminds you of them can be a simple love song or one like brandy's have you ever.
2006-07-28 06:15:07 · answer #7 · answered by sugrdady03 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
learn body language by David D. Angelo.. a collection of 4 Cd's. :)
2006-07-28 06:19:56 · answer #8 · answered by akamc_2000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ur in love with her !!!! go let her know !!!! or if u cant do this just find someone else u know girlz are everywhere !
enjoy ... Live ur life no one is worth it !
2006-07-28 06:16:56 · answer #9 · answered by xxxXAshXxxx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try again this time be more focused and prepared and keep in mind that you dont need her.cause theres many many ladies in the world! haha.
2006-07-28 06:14:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋